Here's some bad news for you… Your girlfriend says she is over her promiscuous past and that's fine. But she has made that past her own defining quality. It's the one thing she brandishes like a sword and shield at all possible times. Most people don't care, but by telling everyone she meets, she's focusing on that side as what defines who she is. If she is truly over it, shut the hell up and just move on and be the “you” that you want to be. Your coworkers and random dudes at a bar are not her AA group or psychologist that she needs to be telling that to. In other words, yes the guy who made fun of her is wrong, but when she offers up such shit in a conversation, she brings it on herself.
Exactly! Me and my UK friends call each other ct while often, or call ourselves that. The context of this post does NOT reflect UK bantering and humor of each other. OP clearly states he “flipped out” and during that period of flip out time, called her that name, likely among other names too. Even in UK settings, a pissed of person flipping out isn’t saying ct for the sake of cheekiness.
Reading your posting history I don’t even know why you want to salvage that train-wreck.
Here's some bad news for you… Your girlfriend says she is over her promiscuous past and that's fine. But she has made that past her own defining quality. It's the one thing she brandishes like a sword and shield at all possible times. Most people don't care, but by telling everyone she meets, she's focusing on that side as what defines who she is. If she is truly over it, shut the hell up and just move on and be the “you” that you want to be. Your coworkers and random dudes at a bar are not her AA group or psychologist that she needs to be telling that to. In other words, yes the guy who made fun of her is wrong, but when she offers up such shit in a conversation, she brings it on herself.
Exactly! Me and my UK friends call each other ct while often, or call ourselves that. The context of this post does NOT reflect UK bantering and humor of each other. OP clearly states he “flipped out” and during that period of flip out time, called her that name, likely among other names too. Even in UK settings, a pissed of person flipping out isn’t saying ct for the sake of cheekiness.