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Date: November 24, 2022
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he also is not comfortable with me wearing certain clothes like mini dresses and crop tops.
Really buried this in here but this seems equally concerning to me. Run away. This sort of behavior is only going to get worse over time.
It does matter bc it’s a slightly separate issue from everything else as it didn’t happen that way. She did do everything else, which is unacceptable and grounds for breakup which I agree with. But she didn’t cheat bc they weren’t in an exclusive relationship. Focus on the bad shit she actually did, which is more than enough for op to dump her and move on.
Even her sleeping with someone else while them not being exclusive but him feeling like they were serious is enough for OP to justify a breakup, but she wasn’t cheating. That’s all.
Peanut butter sandwiches every night. If he acts like a child, he gets a child’s meal.
I'm sorry you're in such a stressful situation. You don't owe it to Jane to find a solution for her – you'd be totally within your rights to leave and let her figure it out on her own, especially since she has hit you.
However, if you really can't bear to leave her high and dry, perhaps you could do some research into the provisions for disabled adults where you live? Perhaps you could find her a social worker or something, someone to help her navigate the process of applying for disability benefits and social housing (if that's available). It sounds like the ideal thing for her would be to live! in one of those semi-assisted living communities where people with conditions like autism and mental health issues can live! mostly independently in their own little flat, with a care worker checking in regularly and helping them with stuff like paying bills on time. Idk if this is something that's available where you online but it could be worth looking into.
……….why in the bloody blue blazes are you marrying this psycho?!?!?
You were on point until you made it about body shaming.
You’re going to disagree with that assessment but it doesn’t matter
You have small humanity energy
Then that should have been the end of the relationship. Any decent parent would have noped out right away not agreed to give up their child.
I started to laugh at your comment, but stopped abruptly when I realized you're correct.
Generally, relationships don't work between people with opposite world views.
However, if this is the only thing that you have disagreed on, you should be able to work through it. If you both take time to explain why you feel the way you do on the race issue without interrupting the other person, you may be able to find common ground.
And if common ground can't be found, you may be at least about to agree to disagree about it and drop it.
However, since you are white and she is Indian, this is probably something that is going to keep coming up so you will need to either find a consensus, or break up.
He sexually assaulted me but said it is how I look at it and he isn't and just keep making mistakes. So I tried to calm down. He would get mad if I listened to others over him.
He did get violent. I did keep asking him what was wrong.
In Jan he wanted 2 weeks without contact. I tried putting his needs first but then left in 1 week saying I'm done. He came back and kept dumping me multiple times.
Did you SERIOUSLY not get a single fucking clue from all the responses in the other thread you already made? And you're still doubling down on how shitty you were, still trying to connive your way into continuing a relationship?
Holy shit you need to grow up, stop excusing your completely awful behavior, and pray that your sister one day has the good grace to forgive.
I wouldn't directly ask. Just ask for more information about the website and then how it works meeting couples. Just be curious without asking.