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Date: November 14, 2022
AmateurPub
AmateurPub
show ass [Multi Goal]
OP, I mean this in the nicest way possible, you sound like hoarder.
Even if it was beyond her control she is fucking careless as shit.
Despite everything it still fuckin happens. Fuck that.
Not saying him sleeping with this other girl is at all the issue. I saying his abruptly ending the convo and not having the conversation that he seemingly wanted/need to have if he just so like this girl.
Again, I see this as petty, but well within his right! If his friends are annoyed that her is being petty, we’ll that’s just what happens.
Only you are keeping you with this person.
Nothing she is doing is giving you a good reason. Words are cheap and her actions show you are merely the launch pad for when her boyfriends are done using her.
She will never be done using you though. She will keep cheating, will eventually monkey branch and then in time come slinking back promising more things to get you ready to launch her again.
Only you can stop this. Stop using weak excuses. Love is a tired reason, give it a rest for a spell. Fear and weakness want to be acknowledged. Loneliness is not great, but the loneliness of wondering where she is sleeping (and with whom) is far, far colder.
This is the time to find that shiny spine. No more excuses.
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Is the expectation that if you aren't doing his laundry and other house maintenance tasks for him, that you are “roommates that fuck”? Because that really makes me wonder what kind of relationship he had with his mom…. Sorry, but in all seriousness, acting as his housekeeper should have little to nothing to do with the state of your relationship.
Just that statement alone seems like an overly emotional exaggeration designed to guilt and needle you instead of being a good partner to you. You spent the day doing other chore around the house and his reaction was to give you a naked time because you didn't do HIS laundry without clearing this with him first, and then to punctuate this, he yells, acts more emotional and punches the car. It's basically a display of rage. You should feel emotionally wrecked because that was the point. It keeps you from challenging him. I'm sure he is perfectly able to control himself in other situations.
You aren't the fuck up. You are probably a kind and caring person that allows him to be that way. But enabling his rage-y behavior is really no good for you. If he won't go to therapy, perhaps you should go to therapy with the goal of setting better boundaries for yourself and understanding that his rage issues aren't your problem.