Girl run like the wind. Tell him to go get a “doc certified” virgin if he wants “firsts”. If he is bringing it up now it will ALWAYS be an issue that he will hold over your head. You can feel guilty about your abortion as it relates to your personal beliefs. Do not feel guilty because he makes you feel “less than”. You can do better.
If he's like most guys I know he's likely got personal goals that he'd like to achieve before he takes that step, you should ask him if that is the case and if so what they are.
I mentioned this wall paint idea for example and he gave his heads up, but we decided to talk more about it once they day really comes as finding a flat is not easy.
Well we are currently looking, so these things came up again. It just bucks me. He is carring and I would love the relationship to work and to move to a bigger city… and now he has to start stuff like that
Andddd you fucked up. The fact that women genuinely think their man will be ok with them being railed by other men blows my mind. It truly makes me wonder whether women understand men or not
well, the relationship is over, i am moving my things out sunday, and we will never speak again. i am devastated to lose someone i considered my best friend. oh well.
Maybe u shld ask him to get a bigger penis so yall balance each other out
The petty human side of me would be all over this. Yeah. As he walked out the door for the last time, I would have to throw out
“Ya know, I know a man's ego is so fragile. I've tried my best to save yours. Now that we are done and knowing the problem will follow you, I have to say it never would have come to this, little man, if you just had a bigger pecker.”
Yep, there comes a point where your parent's SOs aren't step anything. My Dad's wife is exactly that, my Dad's wife. They didn't get married until after I did. Don't get me wrong, she's a lovely person, but not my stepmother.
If this is a one off and he has apologised let it go. He’s learned something and you can be the bigger person here.
This is not a hill to doe on or you’ll end up very lonely.
This! Or She is trying to get with your husband out of revenge
Girl run like the wind. Tell him to go get a “doc certified” virgin if he wants “firsts”. If he is bringing it up now it will ALWAYS be an issue that he will hold over your head. You can feel guilty about your abortion as it relates to your personal beliefs. Do not feel guilty because he makes you feel “less than”. You can do better.
If he's like most guys I know he's likely got personal goals that he'd like to achieve before he takes that step, you should ask him if that is the case and if so what they are.
Then that tells you to leave this relationship. You are not to take a backseat.
Orgasm is a reflex to stimuli, it does not require consent or enjoyment.
Thanks. So you said you spend nearly everyday together. That’s what’s unsustainable. She wants a life outside of you, which is healthy.
This is bigger than her having male friends.
It starts to get exhausting right now.
I mentioned this wall paint idea for example and he gave his heads up, but we decided to talk more about it once they day really comes as finding a flat is not easy.
Well we are currently looking, so these things came up again. It just bucks me. He is carring and I would love the relationship to work and to move to a bigger city… and now he has to start stuff like that
Someone who is willing to have a threesome can not judge others for having a threesome. It’s as simple as that. He is a hypocrite.
Andddd you fucked up. The fact that women genuinely think their man will be ok with them being railed by other men blows my mind. It truly makes me wonder whether women understand men or not
Attention seeking, and childish.
well, the relationship is over, i am moving my things out sunday, and we will never speak again. i am devastated to lose someone i considered my best friend. oh well.
He’s the kind of person, that heat of the moment, not thinking, goes right for the most personal thing he can.
That’s unacceptable. That’s not someone you can feel safe being emotionally vulnerable with. That makes a relationship untenable.
Everyone makes mistakes, sure. Of greatly differing types and magnitudes. Buying the wrong laundry detergent is a mistake, as is armed robbery.
Maybe u shld ask him to get a bigger penis so yall balance each other out
The petty human side of me would be all over this. Yeah. As he walked out the door for the last time, I would have to throw out
“Ya know, I know a man's ego is so fragile. I've tried my best to save yours. Now that we are done and knowing the problem will follow you, I have to say it never would have come to this, little man, if you just had a bigger pecker.”
Talk and then talk some more.
That sounds so awful! I’m so glad you were able to leave!
you essentially married another daughter.
Yeah, but this one he can sleep with, bonus right?
(This made me feel so dirty to type I need a shower)
Yep, there comes a point where your parent's SOs aren't step anything. My Dad's wife is exactly that, my Dad's wife. They didn't get married until after I did. Don't get me wrong, she's a lovely person, but not my stepmother.
It’s a joke to us
Why haven't you called him? Meaning can be lost over text so that's not the best way to handle this.