I had an ex who was kind of similar but not to this extreme. The point was I was his everything and I was there when he was going through every emotion regardless of what I was going through and it out such a strain on the relationship. I didn’t say anything until we broke up because I didn’t want to hurt him but that being said I put myself second.
I feel that in a relationship, yes you should rely on each other but not be so dependent that you can’t express what is bothering you. For my bf now I do have to remind him of my intent and remind him that it is not personal and when there’s an issue it isn’t about him, it’s about the problem.
Bring up your issue, give an example, tell her how it makes you feel, how it isn’t about trying to make them feel bad but that you want to work on finding a solution together
she might just not be that into you anymore? Not a great thing to hear, but it is a possibility. IF she's pulling away, it also could be work/life stress. How's everything else in her life going?
A relationship goes both ways, while these are your funds she seems to expect this relationship to last. Do you have any reason to believe she will “control all my spending?” Is there a precedent in your relationship that gives you that concern? If so, then that is an entirely different issue that should be worked on separately from this house.
It seems to me that you are quite independent and proud about the fact that you've worked hot gotten these funds and are ready to buy a house by 25 (congratulations btw.) But understand that she rightfully so feels like you guys are a partnership (2 years is a while to be together) and while I doubt she thinks your gonna chose her route entirely she would like the ability to guide her future.
No offense but your coming off incredibly indignant about this whole “my money, my house” and I would absolutely walk away from any relationship if my partner started acting like this.
What you did was immature in how you handled it, but she certainly was either selfish in her own wants or disregarded your feelings. Honestly, I'd take the lesson in your behavior for the future, and move on from her for her behavior.
Lol of course she doesn’t want to be friends anymore, you creeped her the fuck out. She doesn’t feel safe with you now and she’s telling other girls to save them what she went through. Just keep your head down and let it pass.
I’m curious though, why did you go from casual study buddy friends right to fuck buddies? If you were into her why didn’t you ask her out instead?
Any chance *he* did something wrong and realizes that he doesn't have the balls to fess up to it, so ghosting is the easier alternative?
I had an ex who was kind of similar but not to this extreme. The point was I was his everything and I was there when he was going through every emotion regardless of what I was going through and it out such a strain on the relationship. I didn’t say anything until we broke up because I didn’t want to hurt him but that being said I put myself second.
I feel that in a relationship, yes you should rely on each other but not be so dependent that you can’t express what is bothering you. For my bf now I do have to remind him of my intent and remind him that it is not personal and when there’s an issue it isn’t about him, it’s about the problem.
Bring up your issue, give an example, tell her how it makes you feel, how it isn’t about trying to make them feel bad but that you want to work on finding a solution together
she might just not be that into you anymore? Not a great thing to hear, but it is a possibility. IF she's pulling away, it also could be work/life stress. How's everything else in her life going?
A relationship goes both ways, while these are your funds she seems to expect this relationship to last. Do you have any reason to believe she will “control all my spending?” Is there a precedent in your relationship that gives you that concern? If so, then that is an entirely different issue that should be worked on separately from this house.
It seems to me that you are quite independent and proud about the fact that you've worked hot gotten these funds and are ready to buy a house by 25 (congratulations btw.) But understand that she rightfully so feels like you guys are a partnership (2 years is a while to be together) and while I doubt she thinks your gonna chose her route entirely she would like the ability to guide her future.
No offense but your coming off incredibly indignant about this whole “my money, my house” and I would absolutely walk away from any relationship if my partner started acting like this.
What you did was immature in how you handled it, but she certainly was either selfish in her own wants or disregarded your feelings. Honestly, I'd take the lesson in your behavior for the future, and move on from her for her behavior.
You’re supposed to shrug your shoulders, chalk it up to experience and act like you don’t know him.
It was a holiday flirt for him. It meant nothing. He’s a twat.
Don’t make an even bigger drama out of it by saying something, you’ll just come off as looking silly.
Lol of course she doesn’t want to be friends anymore, you creeped her the fuck out. She doesn’t feel safe with you now and she’s telling other girls to save them what she went through. Just keep your head down and let it pass.
I’m curious though, why did you go from casual study buddy friends right to fuck buddies? If you were into her why didn’t you ask her out instead?
That’s not boudoir. Your wife allowed your friend to shoot porn with her. And he touched her. She’s incredibly stupid, a cunt, or both. I’d bounce.