I have pet lizards and keep some of their cool sheds (some people make jewelry pieces out of it). Luckily I have a partner who enjoys my quirkiness. Sounds like this guy isn't the right guy for you, and that's ok. There will be someone else out there who embraces your quirkiness too.
In my opinion, it's quite petty to go so hot on someone for not completing a model for school the way that you wanted it to be. Why can't you let it go?
Just tell him you made your choice to keep your baby and start preparing to be a single mom. Child support will take awhile to kick in, if he signs the birth certificate, then a court ordered paternity test takes longer so, I hope you're housing and financially stable. Save as much as you can now for childcare so you can return to your job as soon as possible.
Hopefully he'll step up and you can properly co parent. Even though you have made this choice without any communication or discussion, have lied for weeks, and have given him the silent treatment. (All great signs of a truely responsible, mature, intelligent adult that should be trusted to raise a functional human) The sooner you stop with the games, put on your big girl panties, and tell him the more you can plan.
No that’s terrible. Uninvited him, hire security to refuse entry, go low contact with family who enable him. Ignoring him isn’t going to work, you’ll make him escalate at your wedding. Is that what you want? For him to “accidentally” knock over the cake or do some other dumb thing to get a reaction out of you?
A lot of this seems to be too steered against your son. Something tells me that 1. He wasn’t 18 when y’all were introduced, and 2. He didn’t just suddenly express interest in you out of the blue. This is grooming. No two ways about it, it’s grooming.
Talk to whomever you want. You're not exclusive to this person. No one is making you miss out on opportunities with other women. That is entirely self-imposed.
As for this person, if you want to talk to her, talk to her. If she doesn't respond the way you like, assume that's what she's like and decide if you're okay with it. It's much too early to try to change someone else's behavior. Stop confronting her about how she texts. I guarantee it makes her want to engage with you less, not more.
If what you said is true, you’d be ready to have sex with him whenever he wanted to.
Do you have a common name ? Or is it unique?
Have you asked him about it?
Thanks bro that means a lot
I have pet lizards and keep some of their cool sheds (some people make jewelry pieces out of it). Luckily I have a partner who enjoys my quirkiness. Sounds like this guy isn't the right guy for you, and that's ok. There will be someone else out there who embraces your quirkiness too.
In my opinion, it's quite petty to go so hot on someone for not completing a model for school the way that you wanted it to be. Why can't you let it go?
Just tell him you made your choice to keep your baby and start preparing to be a single mom. Child support will take awhile to kick in, if he signs the birth certificate, then a court ordered paternity test takes longer so, I hope you're housing and financially stable. Save as much as you can now for childcare so you can return to your job as soon as possible.
Hopefully he'll step up and you can properly co parent. Even though you have made this choice without any communication or discussion, have lied for weeks, and have given him the silent treatment. (All great signs of a truely responsible, mature, intelligent adult that should be trusted to raise a functional human) The sooner you stop with the games, put on your big girl panties, and tell him the more you can plan.
That’s not your girl and you know it
No that’s terrible. Uninvited him, hire security to refuse entry, go low contact with family who enable him. Ignoring him isn’t going to work, you’ll make him escalate at your wedding. Is that what you want? For him to “accidentally” knock over the cake or do some other dumb thing to get a reaction out of you?
No, don't be like that, go to this 'friend' and ask for them to be delete.
If he holds them over your head then he's not a friend,
Tho I'd be most upset with wifey in this situ I think,
A lot of this seems to be too steered against your son. Something tells me that 1. He wasn’t 18 when y’all were introduced, and 2. He didn’t just suddenly express interest in you out of the blue. This is grooming. No two ways about it, it’s grooming.
How do you know this person?
Talk to whomever you want. You're not exclusive to this person. No one is making you miss out on opportunities with other women. That is entirely self-imposed.
As for this person, if you want to talk to her, talk to her. If she doesn't respond the way you like, assume that's what she's like and decide if you're okay with it. It's much too early to try to change someone else's behavior. Stop confronting her about how she texts. I guarantee it makes her want to engage with you less, not more.