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Men are so shitty honestly
So living an unhappy but independent life is better than living a happy one?
Coming out is not the same as a regular relationship ending. There is no reason for you guys not to be friends. A lot of people who come out to their spouse, it is usually the spouse is being told to that their significant other is gay. They tend to be the ones who sometimes struggle and stop being friends. As it can be very painful for the spouse who is straight and shocked by the sudden news of something they never noticed, nor were told, etc. Just tell her you will always love her and you accept her for who she is. You want to move forward with her in your life as friends and you wanna be the best co parents you can be. There really is no reason for your wife now an out lesbian to deny your friendship. Unless you ask her out or disrespect her boundaries. Or say to her I don't take you coming out seriously. Then yeah, those are reasons one would not be your friend.
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Lol, yeah ok whatever. No one would believe that they'd be more inclined to believe unicorns exist and pigs have sprouted wings.
Just be honest with her. Tell her you want be with her but in order to do that you feel she needs to be in therapy. That your willing to stay and help her through it if she will go to therapy if she refuses walk away.
It may seem harsh to say but as someone who also suffers from ptsd, its the can be the best option. Simply because we are suffering doesn't give us the right to pass that on to someone else.
There’s LOTS two people can’t work through. Tons of people that love each other simply cannot or should not be together. His words sound like the coping/manipulation tactics of a codependent.
this here illustrates your problem. its not about winning or losing.
Ask her: “when you cry, why do you do it?”
People cry for all sorts of reasons. It can be because they feel sad. It can be for stress relief. All kinds of reasons. Even because someone is happy. It's unfortunate that your mother cried in order to manipulate the situation but that doesn't mean that is automatically why your wife is doing it.
Your wife is an emotional person and she has a lot of feelings and emotions. When you told her that she was no longer allowed to cry , you told her that she was no longer allowed to be a big part of herself. That is a huge blow. Huge. And you are seeing what that is like and how very much she has to cut you off and out of her life because of it. Now your wife will not and cannot share a big part of herself and her life with you. And I can assure you this divide will grow deeper, especially as she realizes it herself and possibly starts to grow resentful of you and your heavy handed requirement.
I think that you and your wife do not know how to communicate well together. You come up with rules for her instead of just telling her how you feel and both of you working together.
You could have told her, ” I don't like it when you embellish stories and I would prefer it if you tried not to embellish stories with me”. And you could have understood that when she is telling stories with other people around that she is going to embellish and you can ask her later for her version of what actually happened. I don't know if you accused her of lying in front of her friends, but you could have waited until she was at home to do that.
In fact, you really don't seem to take very much account of her feelings or how she is feeling at all. Almost everything in here is about you.
I feel as if you are annoyed at her for the problem that you have created.
Ewww no. Don't try to convince her either.
“ I don't understand, you own me an explanation” is often a way to try to talk you out of your decision.
Ditch Wendy and this whole problem goes away. Excuses don't matter.
you're raising your kids IN a broken family. Kids see, hear and sense everything.
Definitely
You're judging him and disappointed in him yet not yourself for sitting there while his friend made transphobic comments bit of a hypocrite
Send her a link to this thread
Infrequent hair washing is definitely common, especially with curly hair, I'm at the point of about 10 days between washes without my hair smelling or looking dirty/oily (took me a year to get to this point, though). So for that issue, she could check out dry shampoo/hair refresher to help with that.
Body odor can change due to hormones, as well as food, poor hygiene, and medications. Some people have really foul smelling sweat (my sister does, so she carries wipes around to 'refresh' her groin, armpits, and underboob, and she showers daily).
Foul smelling vaginal odor she should definitely see a gynecologist for, because that could be caused by infection, hormones, STI and other things that a doctor would be necessary to correct. Though, it could be from sweat (apocrine glands are what causes “stress sweat”, which respond to emotions) or poor hygiene, but seeing a gyno would be my first suggestion for it.
I suggest that if or when you bring this up, be gentle and know that she may have her feelings afterwards (I mean, no one likes being told they smell bad). I would frame it as concern for her health…. vaginas naturally have a smell, but it shouldn't smell bad.
Well a) if she signed the birth certificate, she IS her mom and b), perhaps since you’ve never grown a child in your womb it’s difficult for you to comprehend that she might have actually had a change of heart and felt connected with the baby. Happens all the time – girl gets pregnant, wants to give it up for adoption, changes her mind after birth.
If you can’t have this conversation with her and get some very hot answers written in stone, are you even ready to raise a child?
please quote to me where I said that no asexual people could ever do wrong. in one of my comments I literally said anyone from any background could do anything at any time. my whole point is that it's not wrong to see it as a minute possibility (given that it is, in fact, minute) but it can indeed be harmful to make such a point to publicly warn people about this one specific risk when that's the only highly specific risk you're deciding to act so worried about.
You cant have it both ways. Either you would never accept cheating, or you think that actually sometimes its understandable, but you cant have both.
Right now, you are justifying why actually, it wasnt that bad in this case, which shows your wife that you can actually justify cheating. The reason it wasnt that bad in your head, and honestly kinda ok, was that he didnt give her enough sex and wasnt emotionally present. Those are fine and dandy reasons to ask for counseling or divorce, they are shitty reasons to cheat.
You're more or less telling your wife that you dont mind keeping the company of not only a cheater, but someone you discuss at least her sex life with, and then on top you dont think what she did was that bad. That would weird me out too, to be honest.
No. Do not apologize. Tell her that since you're just friends in her eyes she has no right to tell you who you can dance with.
Run for your life! He’s a predator, he’s almost 30 and is trying to pressure a teenage into a relationship. Don’t even bother seeing him again, text him that you’re not in a relationship, he makes you uncomfortable and he’s not to contact you again. Block him and tell everyone in your life about him and how unsafe he makes you feel.
My bad feeling for OP is, not only he pays CS, but he also has to drive around the kids or provide transportation to take the kids or worse, the wife will not take the kids to any activities during her time and won't let them take public transportation to go to these extracurricular.
The problem is judge will have to determine based on what's told. In the judge's equation: wife being a sahm for over 10 years (14 yrs): check, which meant that she's out of the workforce too long. Hence that's automatic alimony.
As for the mental health issue: anxiety to drive, I doubt that it's going to be considered as a negative for her. I mean, many kids do take public transportation. Or maybe carpooling, etc… So yeah, she's not going to lose possibility for custody based on her anxiety to drive.
A lot of the family court here, I feel..just depend on the judge or based on the most basic. As long as the kids have food, roof to sleep in, relatively clean house and etc–not abused, so what if they don't go to extracurricular activity…for example, as long they go to school daily (there's school bus for that), voila, a lot of judge won't care that mom has anxiety to drive or is a lazy housewife.
Even if OP gets 50-50 custody (which is the default unless OP prefers wife to have main custody–generally this is determined whether or not the kids want to stay put where they are due to school district or whatnot), I think he'll end up having to pay some alimony (just depend on the judge on the length of time OP has to pay).
OP already knows too based on one of his comments, the likelihood is he's going to have pay alimony and child support which are going to be half of his wage and give the ex the house…I'd say sometimes, it's not always fair to the father, when they have divorces.
Well the only reason I feel that wouldn’t happen is because he identifies as straight. So if he does feel he’s bisexual, he hasn’t openly said it.
the ass end, probably
Poor OP has PTSD from the rapist husband, without consent it’s rape, no wonder she doesn’t want to be intimate with the monster. This is not a marriage, it’s a predictor and a victim.
Why should you leave YOUR home? He disrespected you by cheating and he’s not on the lease
Have someone you trust come over and tell him to immediately come home and pack his things , the other person is a witness in case you need to call the police or it goes to court
If he doesn’t come home give him 90 days to pick them up and if he doesn’t sell all his junk on eBay
It's not your fault he has a skinny dick…probably isn't great for you, either. Between the bad sex and the, you know, repetitive sexual assaults, please leave him as soon as humanly possible.
Just show her the pic and dont say a thing. Study her reaction, her face. If she asks you what this is, “you tell me”. “I dont know!”, dont say a thing. Make her nervous. Make her think you think this is absolute proof, even if its not.
She's using you dude. Dump her and find someone who appreciates you.