Dude use your head, that just means she had sex with someone else either during the week you two were reconciling or the week before. Any how she lied, so go get tested asap
Okay so part of being in a relationship with a narc is that they brainwash you with their manipulations and their lies. She told you over and over how good and kind you were. She did that on purpose so that you'd always do what she wants because you're “good and kind” Setting some boundaries for yourself doesn't make you a bad person. Not wanting to continue to pay for your ex's gym membership does not make you a bad person.
From here on out you need to go no contact. Block on all forums – text, social media etc. I promise you will be able to think a whole lot straighter once her toxic voice is no longer constantly in your ear.
Tell your kids what u caught her doing…. explain that u wanted to work through it but the effort wasnt made enough on both sides so u are chosing to be done w it as its obvious and she has actually told u she does not love u. Tell them you wont be used for support and benefits without being loved… make sure they know u love them, and this is all on her.
Yes I have drivers anxiety I mentioned in another comment i honestly don’t think it’s for me because I don’t feel like it’s safe for me or other drivers I do work usually I would just get family or Uber to take me to and from work and yes I would have to purchase a car, I was thinking he would at least help me drive or take me to the dmv sometime or even help me study that’s what my ex tried to help with.
Please tell him immediately, if only for his fiancee’s sake. If I was engaged to someone and found out another woman was pregnant with and keeping his baby, I’d be out. She deserves to know. He might not have any choice in this now, but she does.
Trust your gut.
They always think they’re the exception.
Dude use your head, that just means she had sex with someone else either during the week you two were reconciling or the week before. Any how she lied, so go get tested asap
Are you sure your wife doesn't have sex with others, after a while she may tell you she wants to have sex with her partner?
it's better to accept that the marriage is over and put your life in order
your options are not good, somewhere your relationship will be noticed
be roommates with your wife and being seen as a cheating man (bad)
Okay so part of being in a relationship with a narc is that they brainwash you with their manipulations and their lies. She told you over and over how good and kind you were. She did that on purpose so that you'd always do what she wants because you're “good and kind” Setting some boundaries for yourself doesn't make you a bad person. Not wanting to continue to pay for your ex's gym membership does not make you a bad person.
From here on out you need to go no contact. Block on all forums – text, social media etc. I promise you will be able to think a whole lot straighter once her toxic voice is no longer constantly in your ear.
I’m not. I never responded and I deleted the conversation.
Hot no. Consult a lawyer. Pay her nothing without a court order.
Tell your kids what u caught her doing…. explain that u wanted to work through it but the effort wasnt made enough on both sides so u are chosing to be done w it as its obvious and she has actually told u she does not love u. Tell them you wont be used for support and benefits without being loved… make sure they know u love them, and this is all on her.
Yes I have drivers anxiety I mentioned in another comment i honestly don’t think it’s for me because I don’t feel like it’s safe for me or other drivers I do work usually I would just get family or Uber to take me to and from work and yes I would have to purchase a car, I was thinking he would at least help me drive or take me to the dmv sometime or even help me study that’s what my ex tried to help with.
Please tell him immediately, if only for his fiancee’s sake. If I was engaged to someone and found out another woman was pregnant with and keeping his baby, I’d be out. She deserves to know. He might not have any choice in this now, but she does.