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CathyMay Public Chat Channel NO PVT
Date: January 15, 2023
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CathyMay Public Chat Channel NO PVT
I’m afraid I disagree quite strongly that your husband is a good man. Even if these are his only flaws, they’re so huge they overshadow anything good. Refusing to let your daughter learn to sign as a young child was a huge mistake- and for context, I am a speech-language pathologist (or speech therapist). Being homophobic is not a trait of a “good man.” Insisting on attending certain universities is not something a “good man” does. And forbidding his wife from doing things to connect with their adult children is also not something “a good man” does. No, these are all actions of a controlling bully. In your shoes, I would tell my husband to get over himself, and I’d call whom I want and take whatever classes I want. But I can appreciate you clearly think you have to do what the bully says. My advice is to do whatever you want and he can deal, but obviously if you think that would be dangerous to you, tread carefully. Otherwise I don’t have a lot of advice. Listening to your husband definitely won’t improve your relationship with your children. So do you want to have a relationship with them or be on your husbands good side?
I just like things to be neat. If I have a very long conversation with someone I’ll save it maybe, but if it’s some brief conversation about business like quoting a job or something about an invoice it gets deleted after 6 months. If that makes me suspicious by nature then so be it. I’m not interested in dating a woman who would be offended by me doing something I have been doing since I had a damn phone.
Run.
Sooo………what’s there to fix? You told your ex you want to screw other people (and did) because after 11 years you still weren’t sure he was the right one. If you haven’t figured that out in 11 years, there is no hope for your former relationship, and your ex knows it. Plus your BF is rubbing it in his face. Of course he’s avoiding you……I would too.
The only way to fix this is to leave your ex alone and make your own way-without him, for his sake.he deserves better.
Good luck
You guys are just sexually incompatible. I would just end it now if sex is even remotely important to you. As a woman, if I were three months in having this problem (which I have been), I would chalk that up to a loss and move on
I'm fat and miserable. My partner tends to not engage. I would absolutely love for him to say something like “Well, I love you and think you're gorgeous, but if you're unhappy, I'm here to support you in any way I can. What can we do to help you to start feeling better about yourself?”
Actually put her (lovingly and kindly and supportively) on the spot to make a plan, and then help her stick to it.
If she tends to 'cave' and say “oh, lets just get [junk food]” rather than saying “You shouldn't be having that” or anything that reflects like she's failing, say “Eh, I don't feel like that – how about [healthier option]”
Now I am NOT saying at ALL that any of this is your job and responsibility. I'm just saying, from a fat and unhappy about it person's point of view, what I'd love my partner to do.
Dude stop whining, stop wanting someone to take care of you. What is wrong with starting over. You want the easy way out and if that case shut up and marriage her.