I'm really sorry for what you're going through, and for what your sister must be going through.
As everyone has said, it sounds like your sister was raped. That's horrible.
I can't help though but to feel a bit of hope seeing everyone in the comments stand up for the woman who was too drunk to consent. On behalf of everyone who has been afraid to talk about their assault because they may not be believed, thank you.
He doesn't have to watch a lot of porn for this to occur. My husband didn't watch much porn at all and his ED didn't get better till 6 months after he completely stopped watching it.
I'm confused. From what I understand, you told a friend you liked her. She said thanks, but I prefer we stay friends. You said you're cool with staying friends, so what's the problem exactly?
It can be scary to share your feelings with someone. Just because you're nervous about it after the fact doesn't mean you should ghost her. And it would look like you only value her for possible sexual encounters. Believe me, I have seen that from the other side and it sucks.
Oh I see what you mean, I cut out some information from the post but me and all the siblings going to college actually are staying with my mom until college starts and my youngest siblings are at full time boarding school in a different state anyway.
So your husband treats you like a sock. Why are you still having sex with him? I can't put into words how angry I am on your behalf.
tell me I can go finish myself off if I want
SO CAN HE. Selfish, degrading partners don't deserve sex.
I'm really sorry for what you're going through, and for what your sister must be going through.
As everyone has said, it sounds like your sister was raped. That's horrible.
I can't help though but to feel a bit of hope seeing everyone in the comments stand up for the woman who was too drunk to consent. On behalf of everyone who has been afraid to talk about their assault because they may not be believed, thank you.
how long have you beentogether with him?
He doesn't have to watch a lot of porn for this to occur. My husband didn't watch much porn at all and his ED didn't get better till 6 months after he completely stopped watching it.
I'm confused. From what I understand, you told a friend you liked her. She said thanks, but I prefer we stay friends. You said you're cool with staying friends, so what's the problem exactly?
It can be scary to share your feelings with someone. Just because you're nervous about it after the fact doesn't mean you should ghost her. And it would look like you only value her for possible sexual encounters. Believe me, I have seen that from the other side and it sucks.
Oh I see what you mean, I cut out some information from the post but me and all the siblings going to college actually are staying with my mom until college starts and my youngest siblings are at full time boarding school in a different state anyway.