Don’t go. Just call sil and let her know you will not be able to attend. Then only person you can take care is yourself. When you are able to be around alcohols and remain sober you will know. At this time you are not ready. Worry about yourself for now.
Someone else explained it better than I could and I agree with them. Besides, I also think in today’s society, everyone seems to want bigger boobs, butt, etc. So maybe he thought telling you how your boobs looked bigger that day would make you feel good. That’s how I’d interpret that anyway: clumsy but with no intent to hurt you.
she does shave. and she does have anxiety so she sweats a bit more than normal.
Don’t go. Just call sil and let her know you will not be able to attend. Then only person you can take care is yourself. When you are able to be around alcohols and remain sober you will know. At this time you are not ready. Worry about yourself for now.
TBH if she is insisting that she is right and you still chose to on-line with her then there is nothing anyone can help you.
So you don’t “know she’s cheating”
Someone else explained it better than I could and I agree with them. Besides, I also think in today’s society, everyone seems to want bigger boobs, butt, etc. So maybe he thought telling you how your boobs looked bigger that day would make you feel good. That’s how I’d interpret that anyway: clumsy but with no intent to hurt you.