Yeah I am confused too. She wants to get married, she doesn't need to marry him, it's make or break, but it's too late? Umm, what? Plus marriage isn't common in their country. I'd be confused if I was him.
OP you need to figure out what you want and if it's too late, then break up with him. You can't be all over the place and expect him to know what you want. Don't pull that read my mind game that some women play.
You two don't sounds happy or compatible. If my husband then fiancé ddnt want kids. I wldnt have married him. I'm pregnant rn and we are very excited to be parents. That kind of thing builds alot of resentment. Plus tf does she want. She changed the ring twice.
Are u gonna keep having to pay for her being picky..
You are gonna wait a long time for that research buddy. U either enthusiastically wants kids or u dont. U dont have them to placate a partner and u don't tell someone they shld marry u and someday somewhere could be 14 years from now tell them well nope i don't want kids while they hold onto hope.
Honestly I’d say go for the job. What happens if you don’t take the job and you guys break up. You’d regret it.
Yeah I am confused too. She wants to get married, she doesn't need to marry him, it's make or break, but it's too late? Umm, what? Plus marriage isn't common in their country. I'd be confused if I was him.
OP you need to figure out what you want and if it's too late, then break up with him. You can't be all over the place and expect him to know what you want. Don't pull that read my mind game that some women play.
You two don't sounds happy or compatible. If my husband then fiancé ddnt want kids. I wldnt have married him. I'm pregnant rn and we are very excited to be parents. That kind of thing builds alot of resentment. Plus tf does she want. She changed the ring twice.
Are u gonna keep having to pay for her being picky..
You are gonna wait a long time for that research buddy. U either enthusiastically wants kids or u dont. U dont have them to placate a partner and u don't tell someone they shld marry u and someday somewhere could be 14 years from now tell them well nope i don't want kids while they hold onto hope.
It’s totally fine to offer people in your group a drink, where I’m from its rude not to.