Well you didnt only lie by omission, you changed some facts too. Its great you came clean about what you did, and also great he is willing to be a part of it for you. Now i think that you can only wait for him to decide if he can trust you or not. Chances are good since you came clean right away. Just make sure you never lie again , and be with him the next time you abuse people's trust live for pleasure. Now i might sound judgmental here, but its simply a description of what you're doing.
Is that the kind of sex you want? Sex with someone who wants it over quicker so watches porn instead of foreplay with you? If it’s taking a long time or he’s having difficulty reaching orgasm from having sex with you then he’s probably got some ‘death grip’ going on from too much masturbation to porn. He gets used to that sensation and a real human vagina doesn’t feel the same. None of this is good. He’s showing you your future here – believe it. And then make a choice, preferably the choice to leave him because this is trash behaviour that will only get worse if he doesn’t address it. Let alone the masturbation at work, come on that’s appalling behaviour showing zero control.
i agree with you that an live only relationship cannot compete with a real world one but we already decided that this summer we're going to meet eachother. She also just told me that she wants to marry me one day and that i am the man that she always dreamt about, she also told me that she feels really bad for liking someone else while we were dating.
If she were to agree to travel with you, would you want to stay together? Trying to figure out if it’s the circumstances or the person that’s not working for you.
Fuck. This sounds exactly it
For real. The vagueness of the issue leaves it really ambiguous. How serious was this issue?
Well you didnt only lie by omission, you changed some facts too. Its great you came clean about what you did, and also great he is willing to be a part of it for you. Now i think that you can only wait for him to decide if he can trust you or not. Chances are good since you came clean right away. Just make sure you never lie again , and be with him the next time you abuse people's trust live for pleasure. Now i might sound judgmental here, but its simply a description of what you're doing.
Is that the kind of sex you want? Sex with someone who wants it over quicker so watches porn instead of foreplay with you? If it’s taking a long time or he’s having difficulty reaching orgasm from having sex with you then he’s probably got some ‘death grip’ going on from too much masturbation to porn. He gets used to that sensation and a real human vagina doesn’t feel the same. None of this is good. He’s showing you your future here – believe it. And then make a choice, preferably the choice to leave him because this is trash behaviour that will only get worse if he doesn’t address it. Let alone the masturbation at work, come on that’s appalling behaviour showing zero control.
You need to defend yourself and walk away
i agree with you that an live only relationship cannot compete with a real world one but we already decided that this summer we're going to meet eachother. She also just told me that she wants to marry me one day and that i am the man that she always dreamt about, she also told me that she feels really bad for liking someone else while we were dating.
If she were to agree to travel with you, would you want to stay together? Trying to figure out if it’s the circumstances or the person that’s not working for you.
you fucked around and now you’re finding out