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Date: October 21, 2022
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Wrong title! Try, ”My EX-boyfriend went …. “
because usually it's a marriage where essentially the older person wants a sugar baby they can control. It's easier to have your own life if you aren't legally tied to them, living in their home.
Please go back home. Leave him and seek therapy.
This is not how people who love you treat you.
Don’t ever feel guilty for saying no to sex. Ever. You are not “making him feel” anything. He is not entitled to sex on demand simply because he is your boyfriend. Sex is not something you owe him, so why would you feel guilty for sometimes not wanting it?
That said, compatibility does include how often two people want sex, not just whether the sex is good or desired when it does happen. So, if he wants it 3x as much as you do, yes that would be a compatibility issue.
But it sounds like, perhaps even more than frequency, he wants you to be a bit more assertive and demonstrative when it comes to sex. He has said do directly. Is that something you can do?
That is a reasonable request. It is not reasonable to make you responsible for his self-esteem. And it’s really unreasonable to link your consent to his self-esteem. You see how fucked up that is right? If you saying no to sex plunges him into a self-hating spiral… that’s a toxic dynamic and, in my book, a deal breaker.
You guys need to have some major serious conversations about all of this, at a time when sec isn’t on the table — so not right in the moment after you’ve said no. Go out for coffee or something and lay all of this out.
So, play your level with your friends and play at your girl's level when playing with her.
Not that she is handling this very maturely
Lol I'm glad ??
OP, do not listen to that regressive clown. You're getting tons of good advice elsewhere on the thread: don't let one bad actor covered in downvotes steer you in the wrong direction.