OP, I just can’t get over how manipulative your husband is. He convinced his entire family to uproot themselves to basically move on top of you to perform a death watch.
They are literally going to celebrate your death. It’s like having the wake before you are dead.
Also, you’ve had this disease for 3 years and you haven’t been disabled yet….you could still be around in 10 years depending on how this progresses.
At this point, I’d ask your husband to leave, Change the locks, and speak with a lawyer.
Explain the harassment and how your husband is not only expecting you to die, he is actively making your life harder to accelerate that eventuality.
Take him to the cleaners. Then buy a new house an hour away. He can live with mommy and daddy and visit his daughter on the weekends like every other deadbeat ex husband.
You’re saying that you don’t really have her in mind when planning your future. What she does with that information is up to her, and you’ll need to accept that.
Clubs aren't just a sexual market place. I'm in a fully committed relationship and have been for over 10 years. I would never ever cheat of my man, he's the love of my life. But going to a sweaty club and bouncing around to absolute bangers is one of my fave things to do. Sometimes he comes along and sometimes he doesn't and it never occurrs to him I'm there for anything other than having a good bop. Some people don't seem to be able to separate having fun and anything remotely sexual.
No. He needs to respect your boundaries.
OP, I just can’t get over how manipulative your husband is. He convinced his entire family to uproot themselves to basically move on top of you to perform a death watch.
They are literally going to celebrate your death. It’s like having the wake before you are dead.
Also, you’ve had this disease for 3 years and you haven’t been disabled yet….you could still be around in 10 years depending on how this progresses.
At this point, I’d ask your husband to leave, Change the locks, and speak with a lawyer.
Explain the harassment and how your husband is not only expecting you to die, he is actively making your life harder to accelerate that eventuality.
Take him to the cleaners. Then buy a new house an hour away. He can live with mommy and daddy and visit his daughter on the weekends like every other deadbeat ex husband.
I checked the adress? Its public.
You’re saying that you don’t really have her in mind when planning your future. What she does with that information is up to her, and you’ll need to accept that.
What’s a long time when you’re 22 and he’s 29? Because the age gap is already sketchy in my opinion
Ooooh no, the math.
The real reason to dump him.
Clubs aren't just a sexual market place. I'm in a fully committed relationship and have been for over 10 years. I would never ever cheat of my man, he's the love of my life. But going to a sweaty club and bouncing around to absolute bangers is one of my fave things to do. Sometimes he comes along and sometimes he doesn't and it never occurrs to him I'm there for anything other than having a good bop. Some people don't seem to be able to separate having fun and anything remotely sexual.
Has it? Will he never be as adoring again then because he used to love me so much and look up to his dad as his biggest role model. That can’t go.
Let her go. Don’t ask why. Be a bit cold and aloof