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hello baby, I want to take away that tiredness and stress of your day, come to my room and I will de-stress you
Date: November 11, 2022
hello baby, I want to take away that tiredness and stress of your day, come to my room and I will de-stress you
but you need to pause it for longer than a month to see any possible effects… some women need years! for their hormones to be back on track
They sound incredibly confused and you were sucked into that vortex.
Fuck around and find out…
Wait so he kicked you out when you were eight months pregnant with his child because you didn’t clean the house enough?
Unless you have a degree in psychology and clinical expertise in trauma all you can really do is help her find the licensed professional she needs. No amount of love, caring or patience can “heal” someone with a true trauma disorder. Once she's in treatment it'll be important that you offer all those things. But those alone can't repair the situation.
I agree. A lot of ppl are saying leave her alone but if it were me I think it would help SO MUCH to hear this. Even though it’s still heartbreaking and I’d never be able to get back with him it would help me from thinking I was crazy somehow by imaging a future with someone and that I simultaneously was super unimportant to them that they broke up with me and proposed to someone else immediately. Like that would be fucking traumatizing so I think at the very least realizing the shit show that actually transpired would help me move on
i don't know what to say.
your constatation are correct. of course i can say “not all men”. but the majority anyway. the fact is that shuting about a subject make people ignorant and biaised about the subject.
so, maybe you exbf had an epiphany. maybe he realized ou are right and he is an asshole. but i would not bet on it. his education won't be that easy to overcome.
but i am not more confident either about other men in a third world christian country, where abortion and divorce is not legal. it is too far of my own elife experience to not be ignorant and biaised about them myself.