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Cameron, 23 y.o.
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Date: October 28, 2022
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You can't marry someone that admits fault but never changes. Saying shit like “oh I'm broken, you deserve better” without actually changing their attitude just means they're putting the decision of whether or not to break up on you. Because if you allow her to keep this up, she'll just keep doing it.
Why would she want to change if you keep sticking around after all the bullshit she does?
Don't be so sure you're the 'tough' one. Unless you've experienced someone threatening your life, you might get surprised. My husband is the 'soft' one. He's calm, enjoys pleasing me, doesn't talk too much and I thought he was on the soft side for years. I on the other hand tend to speak up my mind, appear to be firm, have no troubles setting boundaries… I often “protected” him against various comments (he would usually want to walk away, not confronting the other person). I saw it as a sign of weakness. Boy, was I wrong. One day a man attacked me verbally while I was holding my baby in my arms and proceed to hit me. I got so scared that I completely froze, but my husband didn't. He literally transformed in front of my eyes. He was “so winning” that I had to separate him from the said guy, I was afraid he was going to hurt him very badly. I couldn't shake that image of my husband, perceived by me as being 'the soft one' hitting that guy, I've never witnessed physical violence so directly in my life so I was pretty shaken up. Took me time to realize my husband wasn't the 'soft' one after all. He was very well ready to defend me and our child with his life. And I, the 'strong', loud and outspoken one just froze! Now I know my husband is the 'strong' one after all. He's still so 'soft' with me and our child. Never yelling, never being slightly aggressive. A big teddy bear to everyone. But now I know that his calmness and tendency to try to resolve things peacefully doesn't mean he doesn't have strength inside of him.
My husband works a very labor intensive job. I usually cook dinner on Monday and Tuesday when I don’t work and he cooks Wednesday and Thursday when I’m working until 7pm. Fridays we go out to dinner with our son and the weekends we usually have plans or I’ll cook since he works more hours than me (56 compared to my 32.) if he is in that terrible of pain that he can’t take “30 seconds” to make chicken, he needs to see a doctor and figure it out! It’s not fair for all of the household chores to fall on one person.