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Date: October 7, 2022
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A ‘bastard child’, seriously, is it the Middle Ages?
Start getting ready to be a father. You’re responsible for bringing this child into the world. Make plans for how you will support your child with care and financially support.
And stop trying to pressure her to get an abortion.
Yeah, he's lying. But judging by your post history he doesn't think it matters: you've been having issues for ac while and he can treat you like total garbage but you'll stuck around. He'll be even worse if you have a kid because you're tied down. He won't ever get better. He's going to make you do all the childcare while talking shit about you to the kid so it doesn't really listen or respect you. He won't change. Having a kid won't make an abuser nicer.. and yeah, he sounds abusive and manipulative based on what you've posted.
Hopefully this is the straw that breaks the camels back. Break up with him. Leave. Consider terminating the pregnancy otherwise you'll be tied to him forever. Work on loving yourself and find a better relationship. You're with this guy for probably a couple reasons a) you don't actually love yourself enough to think you can deserve better b) you grew up with unhealthy relationships so this is “normal ” to you (its not) c) you've been together so many years you don't want to break up and see that time as a waste. It's not a waste if you learned from it.
You already admit you know he's going to gaslight you. That's not normal or healthy. And if you raise a kid in a situation like that that's their “normal ” and they seek out relationships like that. You want your kids to be with an abusive glasighting cheater? If you wouldn't wish your relationship on another person you know you shouldn't be in it either
I’m mid-thirties and last night I started wondering if I’m weird because I haven’t kept in touch with anyone from my school days. Both my siblings have at least a few pals they’ve held onto from their teens, but they’re also much more outgoing and extroverted than me. I just lost contact, no drama or falling out. A few who I wonder how they’re doing from time to time, but I haven’t reached out to re-establish contact. Maybe if we crossed paths organically it would be nice to catch up, but I’m not digging to make it happen, and I’m mostly off social media.
But the friends I have made in adulthood and have now feel more real to me, because we share interests and values, not just a math class or a lunch period or a bus route.
I can’t remember exactly how I worded it, I know that I wasn’t super direct, but I could tell he got the hint that I was frustrated one night. He said something about how all of this is fine because I get off multiple times when we have a good round and that makes up for the bad times.
He would be mistaken lol
What do you mean?
I don’t get it either. I don’t understand why people would be uncomfortable in sharing a bed with their sibling.
What a supportive partner he is. Do it ? And perhaps next time consider not sharing private matters like this with friends or family members.
My mind is blown. You didn't trick them. If they cared about you, they wouldn't have tried to do anything, let alone ask you for permission. Who the fuck asks their friend/spouse if they can have an affair? The audacity…. This is not a stable home. I understand you want the best for your kids, but the best for your kids is seeing both of their parents happy. You don't have to stay with someone who doesn't respect you. Consider contacting a lawyer.
My husband is happy to do a hair hold or a post puke clean up. (Hes a very happy helper tbh) Most of the time I just go “im good” I, however, have to go outside if he so much as complains about nausea. It's been a discussion about where we each draw the line with bodily functions. It shouldn't be a deal breaker imho unless the bare minimum is being done across the board.
A lot of people do end up with people who aren't their typical “type,” although they should make their partner feel beautiful and secure.
In a one on one situation I agree, but I feel like in the scenario where the three of them were together it should have been her calling Kate out since they're friends. I would feel weird confronting my gf's best friend like that out of fear of damaging their relationship.
Wants me to do EMDR concerning loneliness. Started the process last session.
You are the “back-up friend” when all the others are too busy. Basically a 2nd choice friend. I don't think she would miss you.
It's time to make new friends. It's obvious your friendship with her means more, than her friendship with you.
Go enjoy yourself alone. I wouldn't waste anymore time on that fake friendship.