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Calvin & James, 23 y.o.
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Date: January 18, 2023
I can’t stop laughing at this. Well done.
I'm not the partner in this situation, but I am a partner in a very similar situation. My live-in boyfriend works part-time, and it has started to increasingly bother me, especially as we become more serious.
A big difference in my scenario is that I make 4x what he does. I am a very high earner, but he certainly could make more by pursuing a full-time role. We don't split bills evenly so it sometimes feels like I'm supplementing his lifestyle. Like, he could totally make more money so I could pay slightly less (but still more).
One thing that stands out to me in your situation is that it seems like you're using all of your free time on “me” things. It's understandable that she's looking at you working part-time and wondering why you're not taking on a bigger share of the household management or doing a little bit more in a way that benefits her. My boyfriend does more around the house now, but he played A LOT of video games when we first stated moving in together. I'd think “you could work 4 hours per day, do just one extra one hour of chores, and still have THREE more hours to game while I'm still working.” The house would be immaculate. Are you still expecting chores and errands to be split 50/50 even though you have more free time?
It’ll pass, as unfortunate as that may seem.
Sometimes we become close with people, and grow to care for them deeply whether it be romantically or platonically. Sometimes those people leave. It’s a sad part of life.
What you have to look ahead to is the people you’ll meet as your life moves forward.
For two years I developed a tight-knit group of friends, people I thought I’d be around for years. Then, out of nowhere I had to move back home. It sucked being away from the people I cared about so much, knowing the friendships would never be as they were due to the distance. But life moved on, and I found new friends, and just like those before I had to leave them as well. But yet again, I found new friends.
My point being is life moves on, and I suspect you’ll be just fine. We’re lucky to meet the people we do, and we can always look back fondly on those days, but ultimately, there’s always new people to meet.
U need to tell her
It sounds like your boyfriend's behavior has changed, and not for the better. While it's understandable to want to help a partner who may be struggling with financial responsibility, it's not okay for him to berate you and call your writing course “dangerous.”
It's important to communicate with him about how his behavior is making you feel. Let him know that you value his support and care, but that you also need to pursue your own interests and passions. Remind him that you're an adult and capable of making your own decisions about your life.
If he's unwilling to listen or continues to be verbally abusive, it may be time to reevaluate the relationship. No one deserves to be treated that way, and you deserve to be with someone who supports and encourages you.
Additionally, it's important to have clear expectations and boundaries in your relationship. If you need help with the dog, groceries, and cooking, make sure you communicate that with him in a respectful and assertive way. A healthy relationship involves give and take, and it's important for both partners to contribute in their own ways.
Ultimately, trust your instincts and don't ignore red flags. You deserve to be in a supportive and loving relationship.