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use my fuck machine [5492 tokens remaining]
Date: November 8, 2022
AmateurPub
AmateurPub
use my fuck machine [5492 tokens remaining]
To play devils advocate. Rape victims often feel a lot of shame , embarrassment, confusion, feel like it’s their fault etc. and even if it doesn’t make sense to other people the thought of you confronting them could definitely be frightening/triggering enough to make her say it was “consensual” and the thought of you seeing a therapist to talk about it could make it feel too real for her and this is her way of coping.
I have this love language shit as if it has any real value in explaining people's motives. My pet peeve aside, it does look like he's love bombing you, albeit very slowly or as if he understands the concept but has no idea how to execute his plan.
Tell him that while you appreciate his kind words, the constant influx of having that many of them coming at you throughout the day is over the top and is making you feel uncomfortable.
I've been married almost three years, I can't imagine how not only exhausting it must be to recieve “praise” like that, but to send them. Like damn dude, there are only so many hours in a day. Let's message the young lady and get on with it.
I'm a little confused with your lack of explaining.
So you're sort of dating?!
Have you made an assumption he doesn't want more than anything casual, or have you actually talked about it?!
He isn't the only one responsible for bringing up important conversations, so if it's not happened already, speak to him about where the relationship is going. It sounds like you want something more serious with him, but you don't know what he wants? Or are assuming it's casual for him?
If you've had the conversation and he has confirmed he just wants something casual, then you need to think of you really want to continue seeing him. It sounds like little unimportant things are driving you crazy because you want more than he is giving. So unless he also wants more, it feels like you're just going to spend the whole time with him over analysing or getting frustrated he isn't giving you what you want.
Were you two even committed at the time? If it happened within the first couple months of dating, then it could be kind of a gray area in terms of cheating. If you both had a mutual understanding of your relationship and agreement to being committed then it’s clearly cheating. If your two were casually dating at the time and weren’t BF/GF then I don’t think it was cheating. Still sucks to hear, but if it were me, I would probably let it slide given the context.
hows that?
It's just like a cheap ring for decoration right? Not like a purity or an engagement ring…? Why would it be weird then, did you have a weird uncle or something?
Eh, this exact same situation happened with one of my older brothers and it was because living with my dad gave him better opportunities. They knew about my dad all along but never contacted him so he (and us) only found out about the kid when he was 17