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Date: October 5, 2022
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I've told guy and some chick's for that matter the I'm not interested and married with children and still continue to get harassed by them. Until it's a matter of me saying if you don't back the f… off I'm gonna do something drastic. So yeah it IS THAT VERY HOT!!!!
Yes she did. She just kept sending me these tiktoks to atleast stay in touch. I was just thinking that maybe she kind of “settled” for me because there was no other guy but then again there was that guy she already rejected. Maybe I AM just overthinking.
Why are you looking at her differently? More importantly, how are you seeing her differently?
I can answer the last bit: I trust my husband with everything. I really, really don’t see the point of both of us being worried when we don’t even know if there’s something to worry about. He would absolutely put me first in all ways in that situation. So, it really is about me protecting him for as long as possible.
As for the dealing with visible symptoms- I wouldn’t have kept the fact of medical appointments from my spouse, but I might have still kept the biopsy from him.
At 38, he’s awfully young to be so stoic, but he also had to be worried & scared. I don’t find sharing legitimate fears helpful at all. Nothing goes away just because you talk about it.
I understand that you feel sidelined here, but I really don’t think this is about you or your relationship. This is how he copes.
Makes sense.
I have Bumble and use the BFF option, even if I were in a relationship I would share this information. Tinder? Just no.
Makes me wonder if its real. Who needs advice on this?
True, why should we act like decent human beings if we could just try to kill eachother over minor inconveniences?
Maybe it's because i'm a man but I don't see why this should bother you.
Is it like the female version of a man being told his erection isn't stiff enough or big enough?
I don't see why it would be. You're in your 30s. Of course you're not going to get wet as fast and easy now as you did in your 20s. I promise you his penis isn't quite performing like it did in his 20s either. lol
Okay. I just read what I typed and the more I discuss it like this, the more I start to see why this bothered you. lol. It's easy to forget that women can experience their own feelings of insecurity about their body too.
As men we come to see sex as something that comes so easily and naturally to women that it's easy to forget you have your own insecurities and hangups too.
I promise you he didn't mean anything negative by it.
I'd say tell him why it bothered you but try not to sound hostile or defensive because I truly think that much like me until I typed and read what I said here…he probably didn't even realize that this would be the same as a man being told his penis isn't hot enough.
I feel bad for him honestly. He was ranting about how hated he feels and the whole time you wanted to leave and reconsidered marrying him. I think you should reconsider because I don’t think you’re ready to be married to someone. It’s not really fair to compare how people handle depression and if everyone in your life needs to handle things the way you do maybe you should reevaluate your standards. He was upset and loud, that sounds normal to me.
No you're not. Go away.
All I'm hearing is me me me me me
you are only 18 & too young to be facing all these crap from him.
Honey leave him & find a new better boo!
You are very judgmental, so it is not at all surprising she lied to conceal this from you, given your attitude. Break up with her, so she can find a guy who isn't judgmental, who can accept her as is.
Keep dating him for another year or two and he'll dump you for the next 17 or 18 year old girl he wants to prey upon. Plan on it.
There is a difference between making you feel protected and actually protecting you. I guess you would feel protected if your boyfriend had gotten out and given the dude the ol' one-two. Maybe your boyfriend would have won the fight. Maybe not. On the other hand, maybe your boyfriend protected you by being there, helping you stay calm, and taking a defensive posture.
Game this out. What is really important here? Having a confrontation, maybe a fight? Or keeping you safe? And what would have happened in either scenario?
The problem is, after an abusive episode, abusers very often DO appear to do a 180. Suddenly, everything goes back to “normal”, and they act just like the wonderful person they appeared to be at the beginning. They're extra kind and thoughtful (lovebombing) and the cycle of abuse starts again.
This is how abusers reel their victims back in. This is why it's so hot for victims to realize they're in an abusive relationship, and why it's so hard to escape.
Neither of you deserve this cat.
Be brief, be kind, be straightforward. Use 'I' statements.
“Person, I've enjoyed our time together but this is no longer working for me. I am not happy so I am breaking up.”
Do not give a laundry list of reasons that he will either argue, or deflect, or invalidate, or try to negotiate. You don't want to get into a conversation with him saying: “But I can change!” (negotiating); “Since when does X matter?” (invalidating/arguing); “Well I have to put up with Z from you!” (attacking/defensive/undermining). So don't give him any ammunition for that (in fact, if he employs any of this, you can take that as validation you are making the right decision).
“Because this is what I want.” “Because I am no longer happy.” “Because this relationship isn't working for me.” If you have to, say “Person, this isn't a negotiation – I'm not discussing or asking, I'm telling.”
Good luck OP. It'll be okay. Brief, kind, straightforward.
You deserve better girl! No man in a relationship would need tinder on his phone. He wants to try and spin this on you or make u feel guilty or crazy for not believing him.
He's a dud. Focus on yourself. You sound lovely!