I agree with you, and I'm someone who has the same bias as OP It's something i'm working really hot on getting over. I once watched this movie called “The Lovely Bones,” and anytime I see someone with a stache like that, I physically recoil. I literally had nightmares from that movie. Anyway OP you probably shouldn't call it a pedo stache.
Kids aren’t something you compromise on. If you’re not 100% sure you want kids, don’t have them. But she does need to move along because her clock is ticking biologically.
Don’t have kids to save the relationship. I know quite a few people—men and women—who didn’t really want kids and were coerced into it with the threat of kids or divorce. All of them are good parents and love their kids but they resented the hell out of their spouse eventually and all are divorced.
She never said he couldn’t communicate his desires, she just doesn’t want him to physically initiate until she’s ready.
I agree with you, and I'm someone who has the same bias as OP It's something i'm working really hot on getting over. I once watched this movie called “The Lovely Bones,” and anytime I see someone with a stache like that, I physically recoil. I literally had nightmares from that movie. Anyway OP you probably shouldn't call it a pedo stache.
God why does it have to be so difficult, I’ll try to bring the idea of dna test for all the family. I can’t face it directly
Let the trash take itself out.
Kids aren’t something you compromise on. If you’re not 100% sure you want kids, don’t have them. But she does need to move along because her clock is ticking biologically.
Don’t have kids to save the relationship. I know quite a few people—men and women—who didn’t really want kids and were coerced into it with the threat of kids or divorce. All of them are good parents and love their kids but they resented the hell out of their spouse eventually and all are divorced.