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Date: November 15, 2022
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You are 34 my friend ain’t getting any younger cut ties and save yourself from heartbreak anger and all other emotions. She wants her ex well she can have him
Could you help? I can't see two other comments on here, though I got the email notification for their replies – is there any way you can copy & paste? I don't know how your comment got through but not their comments… I just uninstalled and reinstalled and still nothing…
Trust your gut. Your gut is your most important tool, and right now it's telling you that this situation isn't right for you. There won't always be a clear reason. There won't always be an explanation or answer. And that's okay.
For what it’s worth, I’m a guy and I’m happily married. I tell you this because I want you to know I’m not here being negative for the sake of being negative. I love love and wish you nothing but the absolute best. I’m just in a position of being able to provide advice because I’ve been through it all and learned from it.
That’s why I’m here. To be fair to you, I assure you that when I was 19, I ignored everyone trying to give me advice because surely they didn’t understand “my” situation. I’m certain you feel the same and that’s fine. Whether you believe it or not, your situation unfortunately isn’t unique.
You did what you did. It’s done with. Just own it now. It might be embarrassing, but you meant it, so fuck it. Don’t feel bad about it. It’s unlikely that she’ll be an asshole and spread it around, but if she does and someone says something to you, just firmly tell them “yeah, I liked her. Life goes on.” If you own it, no one has anything left to say.
As for running into her, I’m sure it’ll suck but just try to be mature about it. Be polite and leave it at that.
So a year or so ago the people of this sub told you he was controlling and you decided to fuck around and find out. We’re now telling you that this will get worse and he will completely isolate you except for with people he can control. Will you bring a child into this? What post are you going to make when he really starts hurting you? When you have no one? You need to start taking your life seriously and be an adult. He doesn’t own you. Stop letting him. Get with your support system and get out. Because this is not normal.
First off congrats on having enough money and forethought to buy a house at 25! That is a major accomplishment.
Right now you have a very unequal relationship. My suggestion to you is talk to your girlfriend about the house being equity that it is better than throwing rent down the drain and that you do not intend for it to be your forever home. You are buying it as a way of conserving wealth and as you are intending it for that purpose your principle reasons for the purchase are to appeal to the kind of person you are envisioning selling to in 5 to 7 years ( upwardly mobile individual like yourself basically doing the same thing).
Then pivot to wanting an equal partner in buying a forever home, that you are thinking about being on equal footing when it comes to long term commitment. From what you have said you sound like you dont want a stay at home wife but someone who can contribute to the household income. If that's the case then be clear because if you are not looking to be the sole breadwinner and therefore sole opinion maker in the long term I think that is fair.
However, I would caution that more likely than not given your current status she may take offense at that notion. That's okay it just means that you want different things.
Reading the comments is just like reading a crap tonne of excuses.
Your life partner has told you, over and over and you steam roll her.
You are more than capable of doing more around the house. You are more than capable of listening to your partner to listen, rather than argue at her and making her feel unheard.
I don’t really blame her. I would probably be looking to leave too.
That's pointless, you choose to be and stay ignorant. Sex in itself hurts, sometimes. When you finger someone it might hurt because of many reasons, you did it to rash, you used to many fingers, should have used more lube or saliva, finger- nails were not cut enough or had some rough edges. Etc.
There are a lot of reasons why occasionally fingering is hurting. So telling someone it hurts doesn't mean that it fundamentally hurts, everytime, all the time. If that's the case then she should have told him and made him aware but she didn't.
It's so interesting to see how easy you use the word 'abuse' but don't seem to have the capacity of general understanding.