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Room for on-line sex video chat Britt_Hory
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Date: November 16, 2022
Well that's not what they said at all.
The issues are more to do with your kids rather than your husband by the sounds of it.
In response to your question of “how should I deal with this?” I would suggest you stop being so shallow, and that you stop asking your boyfriend stupid questions that you don't actually want the answer to.
Physical appearance is the least interesting thing about a person. Whilst it can be what attracts someone in the first place, long term relationships are built on so much more than physical appearance. Your appearance also changes over the years, so its not something you can count on not changing.
Have you ever asked him who was his most interesting girlfriend? His most intelligent? The most well-read? The most academic? The most daring? The most trustworthy? The funniest? The best in bed? These are all important aspects of a person's overall character.
NB: DON'T ASK ANY OF THESE QUESTIONS, I'm just pointing out some of the other, arguably more important aspects of character that you are ignoring in favour of something people have no control over.
You need to stop comparing yourself to other people, and you also need to stop asking your boyfriend stupid questions that can only make you feel bad. You're setting up both of you, and the relationship, for failure if you continue down this route.
Tell him you're taking the job, and it's not your responsibility to soothe his insecurities or trust issues. This is a problem with his own confidence and trust level, not a problem with the customers, men in your area, or with the work environment.
Ask him why he's dating somone he doesn't trust and believes doesn't understand professionalism. Ask him why he's dating somone he feels somehow doesn't respect him. Tell him you think protesting about a lack of respect here is a Self-fullfilling prophesy. It says he doesn't respect himself.
Also he's not sweet and protective. He's insecure and controlling.
Protective is where somone who has significantly more experience in some field than you do tells you “that's a risky situation, here's what you can do to protect yourself.”
Controlling is where somone who has significantly less experience and knowledge in some given situation than you do, tells you “I don't feel comfortable or safe with XYX therefore you can't do that, or else you don't respect me or yourself.”
I mean, I'd say definitely see a therapist.
She was honest with you and it sucked to hear, no one likes to hear that stuff, but if you're gonna grow to resent her over it you should probably take a breath and get some help processing your thoughts and emotions.