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Birth Date: 1992-10-25
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Date: December 11, 2022
Oh my goodness… I am so sorry. I wish you strength. I personally don't believe in this money separation business. Even if you don't contribute financially, your immediate family is his family too. He should make them feel welcome, specially since he has his friends and family whom you are nice to, I presume. Would your MIL and SIL support you if you told them? It sounds like a tough situation, and you seem like you don't have a confidant to discuss this with. I would advise you to let your sister visit, even if it causes strain and then confide in her. She knows you, and may have a perspective you would benefit from. Best of luck!
So your situation is a pissing contest he refuses to lose no matter how much you beg him too. You should never have to beg in a relationship. Stick around and continue this or leave. He told you he won't change. You do not mean enough for him to change and you also endorse his behavior by staying. There are many doubts about his love for you when YOUR LITERAL HEALTH is up for debate at all times.
Then he will have to find a way to get the points across needed and open up the conversation
You do understand that people come here because they have problems in their relationship right?
Do you also go to the hospital and wonder why there so many sick and dying people?
Also people try to talk without filter here because it’s anonymous, you can’t compare that to real life.
Oh Lord this man sounds like a selfish, misogynist jerk. You’re better off without him.
There’s nothing wrong with you. You’ve got a strong personality. So what? You’ll be happier if you find a man who really likes a strong willed woman.
Good luck
Do you enjoy spending time with his siblings at all? You didn't get to know them before. If they are like twelve year olds, then they would benefit from your company.
I feel this situation is a bit like having step children, but in this case the step children will never grow up. And yes, step children come first.
Your husband is very wrong to move them in without discussing it. He seems completely used to acting unilaterally. Do you get input in other major decisions? Did he ever mention the move-in as a possibility?
Wait, a sec, your bestie is a long-handled gardening tool with a thin metal blade, used mainly for weeding and breaking up soil? Wow, that's real useful!!!
Since she's also human lol, I'd say that you need to shake her with 'love'… I had to yell at my HS bestie because she's acting out with excessive dating, etc. I told her that I hated being someone she just wanted to rant on, she probably should find someone else who's willing to be in that position day in and day out (yeah, she used to talk my ears off for HOURS a day).
Well done for getting out!
It sounds like he may have been genuinely sorry. So he may learn from this and not do it any more to subsequent GFs. Whatever, he screwed up his chances with you.
You too have learned a lot and you'll be able to move on and be your own wonderful self and maybe make someone else very happy at some point.
Therapy. Get thee to a therapist, my friend, as Shakespeare once wrote. Or didn't but would have if your life was theme for a play, and psychology had been invented in the 16th century. At therapy you may discover what you need to heal yourself. You were raised by narcissists, and there is also a sub by that name ( r/raisedbynarcissists ) which will also help you deal with the trauma of your childhood. You may have also married a narcissist, which would not be unusual given your parents. Take care of yourself.
My partner and I have ADHD and both struggle with RSD, it's what's effective for us because we can have precise conversation without getting side tracked. Just because you don't get it doesn't make it a “yeesh”.
Stop wasting his time and your time, tell him it's not going to work and move on.