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Date: October 24, 2022
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Yeah, disgust is still disgust though. You can feel disgust and upset that someone showed interest then went and had sex with someone else RIGHT AFTER. The boyfriend was disgusted by OP's actions because those actions basically didn't place any value on the boyfriend (surprised they're actually dating). He wasn't owed ANYTHING but he didn't feel worth anything either. Ultimately more distavorous for a new relationship..OP fucked up. You can draw a fine line and the sand but the lines are undefined in situations like this
You seem to be the issue allowing this to happen
Was he always like this or has it intensified now that you're married? Abusers often wait until they think their “victim” is trapped with them to show their ugliest side. Please leave him now before he escalates further.
No offense, but you do sound/seem like a sensitive pussy the way you handled the whole thing.
Hope you actually learn from this experience and see how you majorly fucked up.
It has no bearing on his love for you unless you feel it’s symptomatic of the rest of the relationship where you may feel he doesn’t seem to be putting in effort?
If it were me I’d probably laugh and poke fun by mispronouncing his name for a while. The love is ultimately all that matters. Either you’re okay with the actual state of the relationship or you’re not. The name feels like a symbol.
It means I'd rather be judged for my actions by a jury of my peers, the standard in common law, rather than potentially killed by some lunatic
you guys are still young. you will definitely find someone else.
my advice, don’t get back together. the guy already pull the trigger. it is done. how can you trust him not to hurt you again?
The thing about infidelity tho is that sometimes you WANT to forgive your partner but in your heart you don't forgive them.
This can be for a range of reasons eg you think forgiveness is a good trait and its what a good person would do. Or, you love your partner and don't want to lose them so you want to make yourself be ok with what they did.
When this happens people say “I forgive you” and try to squash down their feelings but it erupts out of you in resentment and bitterness.
If you find that happening it's better to recognise that you don't forgive the betrayal and move on from them.
You know the answer to this. You posted it yourself when your husband repeated what he heard George tell Mike: that you were “still acting like the little bitch I always was.”
Delete his email.
You don’t need to be with someone who thinks you’re stupid. He needs to be your ex.
Info: is he a virgin?
I had a friend in a 3 year relationship like this. Never had sex. Couldn’t figure out why. Few years later hee ex came out of the closet, so that is honestly my first thought.
My second thought is “is he the last man on Earth”?! Because after 2 years, he’s not putting out nor is he being honest with you about why not, WHY are you wasting your youth on this?
He is abusing you physically, verbally, and emotionally. Why he is doing this is not important. He is hurting you and he is hurting your baby, who is already feeling the effects of the stress and fear in your body. You must get away from him.
How do I navigate this?
In many countries, anything received before the wedding stays separate anyway….and often inheritance received during marriage also stays separate… so I don't really see why this is an issue for you tbh.
Just sit down with two lawyers, one represents her, one represents her, figure out what you both want. When you're at it, you can also discuss if you want a marriage contract, adjust your wills etc.
They could also post them live. And once a picture is on the internet it’s there forever.
What kinds of jobs are they? Are they retail or food service or something? Cuz I gotta tell you those jobs do indeed suck! Therapy is not going to fix that, those jobs are misery-inducing
Does she have passions or interests? Is she looking for work in those domains? Will she be able to after college?
How on earth am I arguing both sides? Explain. Please. I’d love to understand how you got that from anything I said.
i would prefer not to without context. sorry.
Ok ok some of the comments here are harsh. I had a wonderful relationship with a man 10 years my senior but as this relationship was in my 30’s the age gap mentally and professionally was not a big deal, we both had long term relationships, house purchases, a careers etc.
There is nothing wrong with an age gap. But at your age you still have to get to know yourself and mature in your life goals. He might be a good man but this is about how you feel, if you feel used this is not a good sign.
You mentioned it’s potentially all about the sex, there is nothing wrong in having a really hot sex life but if there is nothing else going on -no plans no mutual interests, no social group, no wider family support, then it’s not really in your best interest.
Good luck
Could you link your source? Because that sounds like bullshit.
If it isn't allowed in her relationship those are HER BOUNDARIES. If she doesn't want it in her relationship she shouldn't be subjected to it. The insecurity thing is so annoying. If she is or not, it doesn't matter cause she stated she didn't want that shit going on.
You're not a couple. And you were both drunk.
I'd say you need to decide if this is actually worth it to continue to pursue.
Me, I'd say she's a free spirit and you're competing with other guys.
Why in gods name to you have a friend like this? Is there ANYTHING you get out of a relationship like this?
”Any advice?”
Go fuck yourself and then grow tf up