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Date: November 2, 2022
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That 10% should far outweigh the 90%. Just the money is bad enough let alone the rest
okay well that's a start. i'd say that he might have a desire to open up to you but he could be afraid, so maybe in conversation when HE'S venting, gently coax him into deeper topics. if that doesn't work, and time passes and you still feel like you don't /really/ know him, i'd have a talk with him about his unwillingness to open up and this time maybe give him an ultimatum.
you need to feel like you know your partner, or else there's really no bond.
You can't actually know that he hasn't moved on and it doesn't actually matter! Let it all go.
Maybe his current partner is uncomfortable with him being in contact with his exes.
Maybe he's joined an ashram and is attempting to sever attachments with his past.
Maybe your assumption is true, and he hasn't moved on, but wants to.
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…am I doing it on purpose then?
Bro let’s not pretend that staying at home with 1 kid with a partner who does a lot is that naked.
No need for violence just speak with man to man and tell him that you don't like what his doing and that his making your gf uncomfortable. (As a warning ) Otherwise Next Time there won't be No Talking or Warning!!! “Sometimes YOU JUST HAVE TO SHOW YOU'RE TRUE COLOURS CAUSE THEIR TAKING YOUR KINDNESS FOR WEAKNESS “
I kind of figured and that’s all it is. Not a single thing that makes you not-worth-dating, it’s just gonna take longer. Hang in there and don’t lose hope!
On top of that, like 70% of the world has herpes and many just don't flare up. Like I have never experienced a flare up, but both my parents, sister, and my partner have it, so with sharing drinks/makeup and kissing (with the partner obviously), I wouldn't be surprised if I had it too.
Grow up.
Couples don't break up and stay with their parents over “bumps”. He broke up with you. That's pretty final. Is it possible you had bigger issues than you thought? Maybe the conversation you keep trying to have has revealed a basic incompatibility? If he breaks up over one argument, that's not a good relationship. It will train you never to stand up for yourself for fear of being dumped. What was the argument over?
He’s never really properly hit me out of anger like that before. He very often will push me away from him when I make him mad though
1) a lie by omission is still a lie
2) If you want to save your marriage you better apologise profusely and take steps to rebuild the trust she once had in you, that's if she wants to forgive you.
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I will suggest you to sit alone for a while. Reflect on everything specially on this point : DO YOU DESERVE THIS? I hope this will help you to figure out something about your situation. Anyways take care of yourself man. You should enrol in some self defence class. It’s absolute necessary in this modern world. Get well soon brother
Why would I let her experience something bad when it’s Guaranteed to hurt her ? I know how that lifestyle is and I don’t want her to experience that. Like I said I appreciate your opinion but that’s it.
Cut them out. What does your husband have to say about how they behaved?
Then buy your own. You do seem to care about the money, otherwise you wouldnt have asked and compared it in the post. Your a rather shallow person based off of his post.
Also 9 months??? That's way too soon for my kind of engagement, let alone putting a price range on that. Good god.
I dunno about the friendship. Seems like you’re not happy with him right now. Also seems like he wasn’t being a good friend or entirely honest with you earlier.
But it’s really up to you (and him) whether or not the friendship ends or continues.
She cheated on you, willingly. Just for the fact that she was very distance from you during the trip, don’t believe that it’s a one-time and happened only on the first night she’s back in her home state.
File for divorce and fight naked for joint custody.
Okay. She had a drunken one night stand. She regrets it. She told you about it – first step sadly – at LEAST she did that. She couldve never told you and you wouldve never found out about it, so altho your wife made a terrible mistake that makes her look like complete shit, at least she told you. You have two kids together so things get complicated. You have a decision to make. Either divorce her and move on, or try to work things out. If I were in your position, I would ask she leave for 3 months. No contact except kids. You need time to think and she needs to realize she fucked up majorly. After that period, you need to have a sit down talk of if its worth saving or if its just done. And therapy because you will be resentful at times. Its your decision. I would hate to tell you to leave because for some people, its one mistake and they realize what they have done and never do it again.
I wish you all the best.
Clothing is such an unimportant subject. I truly do not understand his objection to such a trivial matter; we wear clothes daily, it should not be that difficult to put on shirt, pants, and shoes that fit, are clean, and in good repair. The strength of his opposition tells a story.
I think what you are saying is pretty much exactly how he feels. He says he feels useless when I’m sad and he can’t help. He is very solution oriented and ‘let’s fix this’ kind of guy. But the fact that he can’t even listen after I explain to him I just want to be heard is so disheartening. Especially when I do it for him every single day because he has anxiety and depression. I’m not trying to be all ‘tit for tat’ I just for once want the same effort I give back.
If she's snoring all night every night it's a medical issue. She most likely has sleep apnea and needs a CPAP machine. Suggesting a doctor should not be a last resort. She needs to make an appointment with her doctor TODAY.
The way she's acting is incredibly selfish. Maybe since it's affecting your sleep, spend a night just constantly waking her up. Every time she starts snoring shake her awake and say, “you're snoring roll over”. Each and every time. Then in the morning when she complains that she's tired because you kept her up, tell her, “no kidding. Welcome to my world” This is bizarre to me that she's not doing anything about it, and it's a red flag.
My husband snores and when it started it lasted about a week before he started trying ways to fix it. The fact that she's not and doesn't care that your quality of life is declining just tells me she doesn't care about YOU. This is bigger than the snoring.
Picture yourself in five years. Do you really want that?
Your BF sounds like a dick to be honest.
If you think so less of your boyfriend you should break up
Texted you
What you should focus on is the trust you have – if you don’t trust her perspective on the situation that’s a problem for you both and you should talk about it. Find out why you don’t trust her – personal insecurity? A history of infidelity? Jealousy?
I also concur with everyone else about the reality of changing in a team room. It’s not what you’re making it out to be.
Yep, I organized a littler dance thing in November with all of them. Why?
Glad to hear you have the “talk about your day” regularly type of close friends. And that you aren't with someone who was manipulating you anymore! I hope you find something healthy that makes you even happier than he did!
Oh 100% a lack of communication issue. He’s trying to respect her need for space while also being rightfully concerned about his relationship. She’s trying to get her emotions in check by taking the time she rightfully deserves. Neither of them seem to be communicating this well.
First off, just because he has regrets doesn’t mean he wants to betray the relationship by pursuing possible previous flings. You’re letting your jealousy get the better of you.
I agree that it definitely is about responsibility and respect. Thanks for taking the time to write this
You did not care properly for your pet and your mother took it where she knew it would get the care it deserves. Depression is free pass to ignore your responsibilities without consequences, especially not to another living being.
Who needs enemies with friends like you.
So… no homo? /s
Maybe just keep reading this sub. A recurrent theme is my partner is an abusive, narcissistic, gaslighting sob but I on-line him and don’t want to leave him.
People generally don’t change unless they’re really actively making an effort and relation dynamics once established tend to prevail. If you stay you will be exposing your children to a horrible example of a relationship.
Look on the internet for resources to help you get away and start you life fresh.
It's not gonna happen until you want to, but do you really want to wait until wanting to leave is as a result of him sending you or one of your kids to the hospital? Do you want your kids to grow up to be just like him and treat their partners like he treats you? Cause what you're saying to them is that it's ok to treat your spouse the way he is treating you and that will screw them over so badly. My mom is the product of an abusive alcoholic dad who beat all his children and his wife really really badly. My family does not talk to eachother. For his funeral my aunt, who organised everything, couldn't find one good thing to say about him that the priest had to wing it and harp on about forgiveness instead of using loving anecdotes of what an awesome dad and granddad he was. He beat her so badly as a child she had a brain bleed and developed epilepsy from it. She gave away her only child for adoption as she couldn't develop an emotional connection to it and didn't want to be a mother and my mom, well, it would have been better if my dad hadn't talked her in to getting pregnant.
All you're doing is creating a circlejerk of pain and misery. My sister and I are trying to break that chain with our kids and have and will tell them, absolutely nothing about our family so they at least have a chance at a normal life. I have suffered from PTSD, anxiety and depression from my earliest childhood and my sister has anger management issues.
I have roughly 10 thousand relatives. I'm inviting 4 of them to my wedding and I'm only really inviting my mom and dad, because it would be weird not to as my fiancé's family will all be there. My aunt didn't even write me back to tell me she's not coming. I didn't expect her to anyway. I have hardly any connection with her. The same as the others. That man destroyed everything he touched and not even he is all to blame as he was also a product of an abusive drunk. My entire family looking back at least 8 generations on my mom's side, are all abusive drunks. Including my mom.
Don't be my mom, or grandmom, or great grand mother. Leave that sorry sack of shit. If he truly cared about any of you, he'd reflect on his behaviour, go to AA and get therapy. All you're doing is being his doormat to use and abuse as he pleases and your children will eventually mirror that behavior, or, if they're lucky, go no contact and maybe send you a card at Christmas. They won't be coming home though, I can guarantee you that.
Yep. We’ll get married anyways and on-line a complicated life for love. Downvote me, go ahead guys.
If you are truly sorry the only thing you can do is leave her alone. You should want her to have people in her life that are loyal and can reciprocate the kind of love and generosity she gave to you. You failed at that miserably & you shouldn’t torment her any further.
They did offer advice to OP though. How couples counseling doesn't mean anything if she's only looking for a professional to give her the final “gotcha” to push him over the edge. How she needs to be honest with herself and him. How not being intimate is probably making the situation worse without communication.
Maybe their comment was slightly hyperbolic, but there have been some posts that come damn close to that exact situation around here.
She also keeps just saying it's “a gut” and avoiding any other descriptions or numbers. For some people, 15 lbs gives them a gut because it all goes to the middle while for others it might be 30 lbs or more. Frankly, neither of these amounts are anything crazy over 2 years in his mid-30s. People keep jumping to the “you're just worried about his health so this is fine” when we literally have nothing telling us his health is in any way negatively impacted by this.
The entire post also focuses on her attraction to him more than any health problems he's having. She mentions he's self-conscious about it directly after saying that she shuts down any intimacy when his “gut” is out, as if those 2 things might not be heavily connected.
There have been TWO comments that say she needs to deal with her own problems in therapy instead of trying to fix him, which is frankly the correct way to deal with this. She's still attracted to him with clothes on, so clearly it's not a huge deal. She needs to find a way to get around her feelings once the clothes come off, cause it's negatively impacting her spouse.
I'm Sorry you're going through this. I had an ex who I stayed friends with, I was always hopeful because we had an amazing friendship and clear attraction, but honestly I wasted a lot of time holding out hope. Like your ex, he needed time, he would never say never, he would never tell me he no longer loved me, so I spent absolutely years holding onto the idea that one day it would click for us.
I can't tell you what it was exactly, but one day something in me changed. I had put so much on hold for him, I had been dating, but never seriously, I never really pursued a relationship, because at the back of my mind I knew I wanted to be with him.
The reality was if we were meant to be, we would have been, I wouldn't have spent 5 years after our break up wishing for more, keeping close while also feeling broken that it still hadn't happened yet.
I had to let go, stop contact completely and honestly he seemed to find it far easier than I ever expected. I then started dating more seriously, started looking for someone I could spend my life with, when he was still in the picture I think I never truly looked for people I could see anything long term with (because deep down I was holding out for him) I dated a lot after that (I'd wasted so many years) and although I met a lot of people I wouldn't have a future with, it did teach me he wasn't the be all and end all of my romantic/dating life. It also made me reflect on what I perceived as this perfect relationship with him, it really wasn't as perfect as I made it out to be.
Ultimately I learned, that for him, although not malicious, he was keeping hold of me out of comfort and familiarity, we were close, he could talk to me in a way he couldn't with many others. Essentially he was using me for his own gain, he didn't mean to, but he wouldn't let go because we had gotten so used to what we had, it was familiar, he knew I would always keep running back to him. I had to cut that off to move on.
I don't think your ex is being malicious in holding on to you, but her reasons are selfish, she is pursuing other relationships, but holding on to you as her fall back when they fail. You uplift her when she is feeling low, you are dependable, you stroke her ego, make her feel wanted. If she really truly saw a future with you, she wouldn't ask for more time and seemingly use it to pursue other relationships.
It's been more than enough time now. I'm sorry, but I think you need to let go of her. Cut contact, look forward, not back.
Tell her nicely that she's being ridiculous. It's a pillow.
Your wife thinks it’s romantic to threaten to kill you if you ever divorce and get a new gf. You have significantly bigger problems than the pillow.
You say you’re not having kids, but is it biologically possible? Because I would not trust her if she says she’s on the pill. I wouldn’t trust her not to pierce condoms. If she thinks that’s what it takes for you to stay…
'hey, hope I'm not disturbing you but I'd like to ask you to delete that picture I sent and do not share it with anyone.'
The nerve, ffs.
No excuse for that. You can buy a toothbrush for $3 at the gas station lol.
Short answer: no apology is needed at this time.
Longer answer: technically, there is a social rule that you are supposed to leave a party with the person you arrived with.
But certainly, Sarah undermined the rule when she downgraded your status to your face. Then, you had the royal opportunity to pivot there and then to this new girl. And you really did have to pursue that for her and you to both feel the best about yourselves.
So, because Sarah was just a friend, she should be okay and frankly supportive of you finding a nice new girl at the party who likes you a lot! The friend mindset is, “Great job, go you, don't worry about me I'll get myself home another way, woo hoo for you!”
Because that's what friends do for each other.
Have fun getting to know your new girl; try not to look back.
Omg how disgusting. My ex has that gene that doesn’t make his sweat stink so he firmly believed that meant he didn’t smell even after the gym or being outdoors (it’s a diff smell he got other than normal sweat.. just like an outdoors, dusty smell I guess?) so he would pretty much only shower once a week. Hair got greasy and he still didn’t think he had to shower more frequently.
ahh you protected your gf and your house ! e enough said .. .. you don’t know what they were about to do .. your gf needs counselling. for her past traumas .. but you did nothing wrong
ahh you protected your gf and your house ! e enough said .. .. you don’t know what they were about to do .. your gf needs counselling. for her past traumas .. but you did nothing wrong
ahh you protected your gf and your house ! e enough said .. .. you don’t know what they were about to do .. your gf needs counselling. for her past traumas .. but you did nothing wrong
No but your bf would not post here
Exactly, he wouldn't, because if he was literally so unattracted to what I'd done that he couldn't perform despite wanting to, I'd reverse the change I'd made. Because I value our sex life.
But this 2-2 setup didn't seem appropriate, especially without talking about it with me first.
Maybe you should've involved yourself more with the planning then eh?
I think we need to separate out these two issues for a moment, as there are problems in both places.
Lifestyle conversations (such as if hypothetical children would go to church, whether you even want kids in general, what kind of living situation you'd want – etc.) should happen sooner rather than later. Don't just assume, and don't assume that you'll be able to change his mind if he wants incompatible things to you. If you don't want the same things, that's all there is to it.
I would also be genuinely concerned about the debt. It's great that you don't have any problem with being more career driven and would be fine in the 'provider' role, but your partner should still have good financial sense. If this isn't something he's actively trying to improve then I'd rethink things.
Now onto your friends. They are intruding, and they shouldn't be. Even if some of their points are valid, they shouldn't be hounding you about it or being insulting about your partner. You're an adult and you can make your own decisions.
You have a good man there. Happy to respect your decision while feeling sad about it himself is empathic and shows he has a healthy understanding of personal boundaries. And if were me in your shoes, I’d be deeply appreciative of a partner who is willing to put your feeling before their own.
But he's not, he said the words. He said that he didn't want me to get an abortion, those exact words.
I will tell him that i want time apart from him. He broke something of value apart from her attitude to gain some time. If you can, go to a friend's house if you are alone next week. Take precautions and install some cameras on your house in case he shows up for some reason.
Then when you are ready and if you think you can meet with him, tell him you want to speak in some public place in case he does something and go with someone undercover that can take some video evidence and break with him. If meeting with him is too much just break with him, but you know him and you know the best way to do it.
Protect yourself what you can and take as much evidence as you can in case something happens. If you need it, don't hesitate and call the police. Talk to a friend or a family member and see what you can do.
Be strong and do what you must to move forward.
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Nah everyone has that list. He just talked about it. You likely have one too.
OP – I feel weird suggesting this bit does the car have a dashcam?
Mine full records, audio and video, when in drive.
Maybe you could grab that if you do?
Thanks for your comment.
I don't think she could help “playing the abuse card” I mean she was actually abused or at least she felt that way. It definitely seemed like it affected a lot of her mental space.
I think I might need a break for now, but I really appreciate the confidence. Maybe one day someone will just 'click' and the rest will be history.
Many thanks ??
It’s very rare that boobs don’t need bras. Perky without a bra are generally surgically enhanced.