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She’s asking me what will it fix. I’m lost for words
I'm going to be very direct with you. You're sounding scary. While you're worrying about being unable to trust her, I'm a lot more worried about her trusting you. Because you are a lot more likely to hurt her than the reverse, and not just emotionally. The need to control your partner is extremely dangerous, and it has gotten people killed, especially women. I don't think you're ready to be in a relationship right now.
Every controlling partner starts out by claiming to have trauma. If you are horrified by the idea of one day hurting a woman, of becoming her nightmare, then please. Take a giant step back, and work on your therapy some more until you have a healthy head. Maybe next year. There's time to get this right, okay? I know this isn't what you want to hear, but this is the time to think about your future and be very honest with yourself.
Even if he’s not it’s very strange for him to be sending her so much money. Something is up
I thought it was a pornstache not pedo.
Does he do anything at all?
Sorry, but you both work, Household stuff should be 50/50, period. Also, picking up after your own messes.
Definitely sounds like so major guilt tripping and manipulation going on.
You deserve to be taken care of too.
Does he take antidepressants? That can do it
I feel like he is totally lying about just having dinner. I 100% believe they hooked up but there’s no point in beating a dead horse as he won’t even begin to entertain that conversation if I accused him and brought that up. I honestly don’t know where to go from here either as I feel like I can’t move on from this without the truth but he won’t give it to me. I don’t want to disrupt his ex by reaching out to her for the truth either.
I think people know when they're unhappy in a relationship. Especially after 10 years of being with that person. It's not “just cold feet” when you truly describe your relationship as an unhappy relationship. You can appreciate the person you're with as another human being because you have been with them so long and yet still not be in love with them or want to marry them.
Cold feet is a few seconds of apprehensiveness about the wedding and your life changing. Situations like OP has is just plain ole realizing you don't want to waste anymore time with someone you don't feel absolutely crazy about. That's a hell of a lot different and people that chalk this stuff up to cold feet are the reason why western society has normalized getting into and staying in boring/toxic/stale/dead relationships that feel badly for both parties. It's time people break the cycle that their parents and grandparents and great grandparents before them got stuck in and for everyone to stop saying “it's just cold feet, go ahead and get married!”