Talk to the police. Those cremains were stolen. Since he is in a different state, you might have to talk to that jurisdiction and/or it –could– be federal. Which would be good.
And talk to an attorney. Look up your local Bar Association for names.
And a therapist. You deserve a safe place to handle your grief. Good luck OP.
Hi OP, please free to come on over to r/inferilitybabies or r/IVF. There are many very uninformed/uneducated comments (albeit well meaning) in here. These are supportive and knowledgeable subs.
I'm really sorry. It must be hot to hear so many strangers reacting negatively but st the same time we are seeing this from our outside perspective and give our honest opinion. (And don't get me started by the jacking off at work…that's awful).
Pick up your self esteem, be kind to yourself and do yourself a favor ; find someone who can appreciate you. Or don't find someone…relationships are not a must. But you deserve better.
If it was that big of an issue 7 years ago, she should have left 7 years ago when these incidents happened. She didn't. But she wants to keep dredging them up and holding them over his head as if he's doing something heinous now.
I'm not sure why you are still with this guy to begin with. He clearly wants to be with his ex but is too much of a coward to cut it off with you. Take that step for him. Dump his ass
I don’t have one but it’s the first thing I will be sorting on Monday
Talk to the police. Those cremains were stolen. Since he is in a different state, you might have to talk to that jurisdiction and/or it –could– be federal. Which would be good.
And talk to an attorney. Look up your local Bar Association for names.
And a therapist. You deserve a safe place to handle your grief. Good luck OP.
Hi OP, please free to come on over to r/inferilitybabies or r/IVF. There are many very uninformed/uneducated comments (albeit well meaning) in here. These are supportive and knowledgeable subs.
I'm really sorry. It must be hot to hear so many strangers reacting negatively but st the same time we are seeing this from our outside perspective and give our honest opinion. (And don't get me started by the jacking off at work…that's awful).
Pick up your self esteem, be kind to yourself and do yourself a favor ; find someone who can appreciate you. Or don't find someone…relationships are not a must. But you deserve better.
If it was that big of an issue 7 years ago, she should have left 7 years ago when these incidents happened. She didn't. But she wants to keep dredging them up and holding them over his head as if he's doing something heinous now.
Yeah bud….. You might not be her primary boyfriend….
I'm not sure why you are still with this guy to begin with. He clearly wants to be with his ex but is too much of a coward to cut it off with you. Take that step for him. Dump his ass