Not quite sure why you married him , all that deception happened before marriage.
However definately leave him now before you graduate and they make you pay real money.
I don't mind your parents saying you should support him and I think that is true but its a two way street , if he is not even trying to find a job after he quit his first job then he is no longer supporting you.
Well I guess you know the type of guy he is. He has either left her because kids were off the table, or because he didn't want the responsibility of looking after someone with this condition later in life or what it made him think of her.
I would definitely get his view on it at least, because regardless of the downvotes and what other people are saying, this could all have been about children, or there could be more to the story than she's telling you. He was in the hospital pictures after all.
Despite this however, you still have to realise he's lied and hid a whole previous marriage. He's said through sickness and health, then left when health either made kids not an option or her a burden/unattractive.
The lying alone would be enough for me to leave someone. But I'd still want to know the truth of what she's sharing and why he hid it in case there was something huge that she's not including.
People on here were fine with a post the other day hiding their previous marriage because their partner had died. They are fickle. If you're going to share your life and trust with someone…. you shouldn't be hiding any of this and it raises huge concerns about him unless there's more you're just not getting told.
I would be telling her, “I wouldn’t want you to feel like you were settling. And that’s why I’m cutting you loose, so you can go shop for a better deal than me.”
You do realise cheating isn’t just physical it’s emotionally as well
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Not quite sure why you married him , all that deception happened before marriage.
However definately leave him now before you graduate and they make you pay real money.
I don't mind your parents saying you should support him and I think that is true but its a two way street , if he is not even trying to find a job after he quit his first job then he is no longer supporting you.
It's her choice. You don't have to understand it.
btw she wanted me to post this because she doesn’t know if purposely not letting me know when shes gonna be busy is right or wrong
Well I guess you know the type of guy he is. He has either left her because kids were off the table, or because he didn't want the responsibility of looking after someone with this condition later in life or what it made him think of her.
I would definitely get his view on it at least, because regardless of the downvotes and what other people are saying, this could all have been about children, or there could be more to the story than she's telling you. He was in the hospital pictures after all.
Despite this however, you still have to realise he's lied and hid a whole previous marriage. He's said through sickness and health, then left when health either made kids not an option or her a burden/unattractive.
The lying alone would be enough for me to leave someone. But I'd still want to know the truth of what she's sharing and why he hid it in case there was something huge that she's not including.
People on here were fine with a post the other day hiding their previous marriage because their partner had died. They are fickle. If you're going to share your life and trust with someone…. you shouldn't be hiding any of this and it raises huge concerns about him unless there's more you're just not getting told.
He sleeps a lot more & I don’t sleep very much at all. We have 2 bedrooms now but I’m not sure how often I really want to be going into the other room
I would be telling her, “I wouldn’t want you to feel like you were settling. And that’s why I’m cutting you loose, so you can go shop for a better deal than me.”