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Room for on-line sex video chat Bombshell-t
Model from: tr
Languages: en
Birth Date: 1995-09-17
Body Type: bodyTypeCurvy
Ethnicity: ethnicityWhite
Hair color: hairColorBlack
Eyes color: eyeColorBlack
Subculture: subcultureRomantic
Date: February 17, 2023
and she still loves me.
lol
Dude you are in shock, you have been living a lie.
Get yourself some professional help to help you unpack this and decide what you want to do.
Do you want to just be FWB with him?
How old are your kids?
Make good choices. Trust your gut. Seems like you want to be talked into doing this.
he would probably cancel the whole thing
How would he cancel? He is not organizing anything, he doesn't even know who the friends are.
What's he going to do? Act as a bouncer and send everyone home?
This is the core issue. To be very honest, I don't fully trust that the girl was wildly evil. I don't know that OP has the capacity to make that judgment because his insecurity is so extreme that even a mild joke can trigger him & then he broods on the incident. He also said the family already thinks he's weird too, so that is telling. I wish for the OP to get some help for himself. Once he has more mental fortitude, he will be able to easily handle small conflicts like this. I think the advice he's getting to go low or no contact is not the right advice for this scenario. He needs help, not isolation.
Compatability matters, I've had my own experience with one sided libido, it sparks resentment that grows into a wildfire the longer it goes on. Everything else can be perfect but people have needs. Like marriage, kids, finances, if you two want different things, it's not going to work out. Hopefully you can end things amicably, explain that it's an issue for you, that you don't want or expect her to change. You can still love her but not be right for each other, people telling you to suck it up are projecting their own unhappiness. To me they sound like “my parents fought constantly but they loved each other, so why is it a problem when we fight?”