That’s good, I think they will be able to handle it so don’t worry.
On the other hand, as you’ve stated in your other comments- keep on putting a plan together to leave. I would honestly find both pups a new home if it’s too much to deal with while you try to get away from this man.
Focus on yourself, you deserve so much more… in general, this guy is just NOT a good person. Even with a dog door, and even with our dogs being independent for a loooong time, both me and my partner have definitely taken time out of our work days to come check on them if we were worried, etc. I know for a fact if I asked my SO to please not go somewhere to watch the pups he wouldn’t go… just out of love.
And while I get that TECHNICALLY they’ll be fine alone, it doesn’t change the fact that he just isn’t caring enough to worry about that? And that he’s screaming over it, and “smashing the place”? Madness.
Take your time preparing to leave, give the pups away (I know this will be very hot :() and put together a plan to leave. Even just enough for a ticket to get you to a place where you HAVE the necessary support to go through with this.
I’m sorry he’s shitty, you clearly have a massive heart and I hope you can find a way out. You’re a good person for caring about your pups’ well-being, and you deserve better than this guy.
It sounds like the child would be in danger of neglect. I get that people don't take it as seriously as active abuse, but growing up in a household like OP describes will still have a massive negative impact on the child's life.
It's also worse, in my opinion, that you'd cheat with someone you didn't even like and meant nothing. Like, great. You ruined my trust, self esteem and our relationship but it's fantastic to know it was all over someone who meant absolutely nothing at all.
OP, you are being financially and emotionally abused. This is such a cut-and-dried example. Dear younger sister, do not bother adjusting your perfectly good body to appease this nit. Make your exit plan. You are not safe with someone who will blow a gasket if you ask for your own bank account.
Any idea what happened in Mexico to change his mind?
That’s good, I think they will be able to handle it so don’t worry.
On the other hand, as you’ve stated in your other comments- keep on putting a plan together to leave. I would honestly find both pups a new home if it’s too much to deal with while you try to get away from this man.
Focus on yourself, you deserve so much more… in general, this guy is just NOT a good person. Even with a dog door, and even with our dogs being independent for a loooong time, both me and my partner have definitely taken time out of our work days to come check on them if we were worried, etc. I know for a fact if I asked my SO to please not go somewhere to watch the pups he wouldn’t go… just out of love.
And while I get that TECHNICALLY they’ll be fine alone, it doesn’t change the fact that he just isn’t caring enough to worry about that? And that he’s screaming over it, and “smashing the place”? Madness.
Take your time preparing to leave, give the pups away (I know this will be very hot :() and put together a plan to leave. Even just enough for a ticket to get you to a place where you HAVE the necessary support to go through with this.
I’m sorry he’s shitty, you clearly have a massive heart and I hope you can find a way out. You’re a good person for caring about your pups’ well-being, and you deserve better than this guy.
It sounds like the child would be in danger of neglect. I get that people don't take it as seriously as active abuse, but growing up in a household like OP describes will still have a massive negative impact on the child's life.
He’s just using you. Sorry
I guess he could melt it and sell the stones. Just sounded like a one of a kind piece no one ends would want to wear.
I’m sorry, OP, this doesn’t look good.
I’m also surprised that in the age of digital, people are stupid enough to try hiding texts on a joint mobile plan.
It's also worse, in my opinion, that you'd cheat with someone you didn't even like and meant nothing. Like, great. You ruined my trust, self esteem and our relationship but it's fantastic to know it was all over someone who meant absolutely nothing at all.
OP, you are being financially and emotionally abused. This is such a cut-and-dried example. Dear younger sister, do not bother adjusting your perfectly good body to appease this nit. Make your exit plan. You are not safe with someone who will blow a gasket if you ask for your own bank account.
Break up,
You got sick, and he wouldn't leave a party to go with you.
He then slept with a girl.
then went out with her and slept with her again.
That's three strikes. How many does he get? He's not worth it.