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Date: October 19, 2022
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It's good to see that people have started to come to their senses.
Ha! That's a good one. No it's random luck. If the first few people to see your comment agree, and you get a few upvotes, it generates momentum and people just upvote without thinking, going along with the group. They assume you're right because the group agrees.
Likewise with downvotes. If one person with 5-10 sock puppet accounts decides they don't like your take, no matter how realistic or reasonable, you may as well delete.
Oh honey. He's been sleeping with other people for 14 years, and it sounds like he's gaslit you into thinking that you agreed to an open relationship. From how you're describing it, it sounds like he managed to convince you that a lot of it is your fault or not an issue.
You misunderstood the conversation about being open, therefore you should accept it and move on? You're telling me he thought you were in an open relationship for 14 years and NOT ONCE did he mention anybody he was seeing or who you were seeing? Its not like it happened once… he slept with people multiple times a month for FOURTEEN YEARS.
You wanted to be exclusive, he wanted an open relationship, but somehow its your fault that you're not exclusive because “you refused to get on board with his plans?”
I'm sorry, but it really sounds like you were gaslit here into believing his narrative. You knew how you felt about the relationship and what you thought the relationship was, and you shouldn't let him redefine the last 14 years for you.
Look, you've dated for 14 years. If he was serious about you and wanting to make sure the relationship is healthy and happy, I can't imagine he wouldn't let this whole thing slide under the radar and undiscussed for 14 whole years. I can't imagine he wouldn't have AT LEAST once checked in… make sure everything was still okay and that you're headed down the right path. I think you need to step back objectively, trying to not be biased towards all the time you've spent with him, and really assess the situation for what it was.
Good luck
its clearly a problem because youre looking for an emotionally mature response from someone of a young age.. actively demonstrating they cant do that..
The best thing is for both of you to block all contact, learn from your mistakes and move on. She invested her own money. Yes you encouraged it, but personally, as an adult, I am smart enough and responsible enough to say no to people who are trying to encourage me to take a risk I don’t want to take. I am smart and responsible enough to know that MY investment would be MY loss, and would not be the responsibility of the person who encouraged me to do it. She needs to learn that you can’t blame other people for your mistakes, or hold other people responsible for them, even if they did encourage you. She made the decision to trust it, and put her money in it. SHE made the decision, not you. And you should, and hopefully have already, learn not to encourage people to do risky things. Before you do something, think “could this go wrong? Exactly how big of a deal would it be if it did go wrong? Am I prepared to handle that?”
Watch the games with him
If he wants to break up, then you are broken up.