Call it what it really is. Cheating. Your wife cheated on you. Being drunk is no excuse for her to do what she did. Do you think she’d forgive you if the roles were reversed? If I were you I wouldn’t care if my spouse was drunk or not, I wouldn’t forgive them if they cheated. I, like you, have to do what’s best for my happiness and well-being and that’s phone a divorce lawyer.
if he cheated on you, the text would have been more explicit. so i think you jumped the gun here. HOWEVER the chance of him eventually cheating on you is high. she being aggressive AF, does not care that he is married (i assumed he told her … maybe not), and you guys fight constantly. if you make his home hostile, he will want to leave or stay away.
something gotta give. if he can’t quit his job or get a job where he does not see her anymore, then your marriage is doom to fail. your only chance really is to confront her directly. call her or go and meet her in person. maybe he didn’t tell her he is married. EITHER WAY your husband is being dishonest and your marriage is on wafer thin ice.
if you decide on a divorce then be sure to save his text before he delete them if not already. 4 kids will be tough.
It doesn’t does not always heard that way I was using voice recognition in it auto corrected it. I am so sorry I’m gonna go and delete that. The first time after that it doesn’t.
Risks and costs apply to both. We've treaded the same ground that both of these types of relationships don't carry anymore baggage than the other. I'm not arguing with you anymore.
I think your husband owed it to you and your kids to be faithful. Therapy would be off the table for me. I’d file for divorce because cheating is a dealbreaker.
During football season I rarely talk to my gf. Sunday is off limits for me. I’m bias but respect it his wishes my opinion . I’m also in the army also so I can relate
I think when he is at work, you should pack up you and your son’s stuff, go to a hotel, and leave a note for him saying “We are in a hotel until you talk to us. Let me know when you are ready to talk and I will come home. But if you do the silent treatment anymore, at all ever, we will go back to a hotel. I will not tolerate the silent treatment anymore.” And just stay there and don’t try to contact him. If a few weeks go by and he doesn’t contact you then contact a lawyer.
He’s not mature enough for a relationship, and I bet he happy show up for the sex part of the date right?
Now, he’s bored and trying to avoid and ghost you. He got what he wanted and he’s moving on.
Sorry that he’s a bad guy.
Call it what it really is. Cheating. Your wife cheated on you. Being drunk is no excuse for her to do what she did. Do you think she’d forgive you if the roles were reversed? If I were you I wouldn’t care if my spouse was drunk or not, I wouldn’t forgive them if they cheated. I, like you, have to do what’s best for my happiness and well-being and that’s phone a divorce lawyer.
if he cheated on you, the text would have been more explicit. so i think you jumped the gun here. HOWEVER the chance of him eventually cheating on you is high. she being aggressive AF, does not care that he is married (i assumed he told her … maybe not), and you guys fight constantly. if you make his home hostile, he will want to leave or stay away.
something gotta give. if he can’t quit his job or get a job where he does not see her anymore, then your marriage is doom to fail. your only chance really is to confront her directly. call her or go and meet her in person. maybe he didn’t tell her he is married. EITHER WAY your husband is being dishonest and your marriage is on wafer thin ice.
if you decide on a divorce then be sure to save his text before he delete them if not already. 4 kids will be tough.
It doesn’t does not always heard that way I was using voice recognition in it auto corrected it. I am so sorry I’m gonna go and delete that. The first time after that it doesn’t.
Risks and costs apply to both. We've treaded the same ground that both of these types of relationships don't carry anymore baggage than the other. I'm not arguing with you anymore.
He’s not dude
I think your husband owed it to you and your kids to be faithful. Therapy would be off the table for me. I’d file for divorce because cheating is a dealbreaker.
During football season I rarely talk to my gf. Sunday is off limits for me. I’m bias but respect it his wishes my opinion . I’m also in the army also so I can relate
You're probably right. It's just so overwhelming right now- I found out maybe 3 hours ago and my mind has been racing ever since.
I think when he is at work, you should pack up you and your son’s stuff, go to a hotel, and leave a note for him saying “We are in a hotel until you talk to us. Let me know when you are ready to talk and I will come home. But if you do the silent treatment anymore, at all ever, we will go back to a hotel. I will not tolerate the silent treatment anymore.” And just stay there and don’t try to contact him. If a few weeks go by and he doesn’t contact you then contact a lawyer.