I don’t really have an attitude against her, I like her I just don’t want to be forced into being her primary caregiver when I have so much on my plate already.
I mean it could have been to alleviate his guilt personally without actually owning up to it. It isn't that odd of a thing to do I don't think. Slightly different but one time before I was confident enough to tell my gf I loved her to her face I told her while she was sleeping just to see how it felt to say it. I can see myself doing the same for the opposite.
Could totally 100% be a dream, but I don't think it should be completely and fully brushed off as one like a lot of these comments are implying she should do. Like fuck, imagine she listens to everyone here and writes it off as her imagination then 2 years later finds out he's been cheating the whole time? I'm not saying she should go nuclear by any means but a little investigating is completely valid especially in tandem with a rough patch and lack of intimacy.
Lol you meant it. You said everything you could to wilfully hurt her for not being willing to incubate kids you aren't even sure you want. You don't love her as a person, but as a utility you use for self satisfaction.
Sounds like bait ngl.
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Yup, he's always going to push to have you around now.
I don’t really have an attitude against her, I like her I just don’t want to be forced into being her primary caregiver when I have so much on my plate already.
I mean it could have been to alleviate his guilt personally without actually owning up to it. It isn't that odd of a thing to do I don't think. Slightly different but one time before I was confident enough to tell my gf I loved her to her face I told her while she was sleeping just to see how it felt to say it. I can see myself doing the same for the opposite.
Could totally 100% be a dream, but I don't think it should be completely and fully brushed off as one like a lot of these comments are implying she should do. Like fuck, imagine she listens to everyone here and writes it off as her imagination then 2 years later finds out he's been cheating the whole time? I'm not saying she should go nuclear by any means but a little investigating is completely valid especially in tandem with a rough patch and lack of intimacy.
And that means he’s a crap therapist if you are his client. It’s illegal in fact to be screwing your patient.
Lol you meant it. You said everything you could to wilfully hurt her for not being willing to incubate kids you aren't even sure you want. You don't love her as a person, but as a utility you use for self satisfaction.
I hope she leaves you.
that’s true, that gave me some insight. Thank you.
Yeah, I feel like the husband is not the a-hole here…
Jesus Christ, reddit.