There's way too much missing info here to make any kind of helpful insightful comments. Either your husband is a horrible passive-aggressive flake and trying to divorce you without confrontation, he has a second family, or you did something that made him fear you to know where he lives- or some other range of possibilities in between.
You have a kid now. All I can say is please make a home safe and sane for your child, regardless of how you go about doing that.
Another chance to humiliate you in new and more epic ways? Was his brother in on the lie? How did he explain to his friends that you wouldn't be coming? Did the girl know he was lying to you? How many more smaller outings has he had that he's lied about?
Let me just give a reminder: Even if she was SA-ed, it doesn't mean that you should stay with her if you don't have it in you to believe her or to trust her as a partner.
You can be supportive (as supportive as you can) and not be with her anymore, you know.
Let her know that you want to break up and let her do whatever she wants afterward. Give her time to move out, etc.
Let me just give a reminder: Even if she was SA-ed, it doesn't mean that you should stay with her if you don't have it in you to believe her or to trust her as a partner.
You can be supportive (as supportive as you can) and not be with her anymore, you know.
Let her know that you want to break up and let her do whatever she wants afterward. Give her time to move out, etc.
Doesn't actually mean anything to me sorry, just put together three random words
Usually most couples are serious about their relationship and they are together for 3-5 years.
You’re together for barely 6 months?
Honey, what’s your bank password? I forget.
SIX MONTHS FOR THIS SIMPLE HYPOTHETICAL QUESTION???
Yes, for the third time, I admit that's a possibility.
There's way too much missing info here to make any kind of helpful insightful comments. Either your husband is a horrible passive-aggressive flake and trying to divorce you without confrontation, he has a second family, or you did something that made him fear you to know where he lives- or some other range of possibilities in between.
You have a kid now. All I can say is please make a home safe and sane for your child, regardless of how you go about doing that.
Thank you
Another chance to humiliate you in new and more epic ways? Was his brother in on the lie? How did he explain to his friends that you wouldn't be coming? Did the girl know he was lying to you? How many more smaller outings has he had that he's lied about?
I don't know how to bring it up
If he wont do counseling u gotta go. A towel underneath or something wouldve been better.
This is a well of text.
Let me just give a reminder: Even if she was SA-ed, it doesn't mean that you should stay with her if you don't have it in you to believe her or to trust her as a partner.
You can be supportive (as supportive as you can) and not be with her anymore, you know.
Let her know that you want to break up and let her do whatever she wants afterward. Give her time to move out, etc.
This is a wall of text.
Let me just give a reminder: Even if she was SA-ed, it doesn't mean that you should stay with her if you don't have it in you to believe her or to trust her as a partner.
You can be supportive (as supportive as you can) and not be with her anymore, you know.
Let her know that you want to break up and let her do whatever she wants afterward. Give her time to move out, etc.