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In this post all the info you give indicates that breaking up would be the only reasonable choice. I'm sure a 10 year relationship likely have had some great moments too. But your mother very nearly died and her reaction is to force you to cut off family. A family that doesn't like her because she treats you like shit.
Unless you and your family have treated her like shit over the years before this happened I say break up and go hug your mum and family. As someone who had to deal with my wife trying to prevent me from visiting my mother when she was dying I ask you to remember that you deserve better.
I very much disagree. I am not an attractive guy, but I am pleasant to be around. That's the important part. It also matters how you approach people you're interested in dating, and treating them like human beings instead of goals, if that makes sense?
thats literally called “crazymaking” its part of the abuse. you need to get away from this guy for your own safety. /u/ebbie45 has resources in their profile which might help you
I'm not being facetious, but sorry dude, your wife is at the very least having an emotional affair. No mother would be okay with her children developing a child-father bond with another man and not the paternal father assuming the relationship between the parents is healthy.
You're pretty stuck here, because you have children with this woman. I don't know your history with her or how you two got to this place in your relationship, but clearly something is broken and you two need to sit down and communicate.
My hunch is that there is a lot you aren't telling us about your relationship with your wife. As the father and sole bread winner, you have every right to cut your hours to spend a little more time with your kids. I'm assuming doing so wouldn't harm your ability to provide for the children. The fact she responds so negatively is either really telling or you're withholding information. Either way, your wife is having an emotional affair, and you two need to have a long, serious, and probably unhappy talk about what the hell is wrong with the relationship.
It's fair to break up for boundaries not being stuck to. You want two forms of protection and it's not being met.
However, it's 100% fair for her to not want to use female birth control. Thank god I'm in premature menopause and don't need to worry about periods or pregnancy.
Hormonal birth control has a book's worth of side effects, and the negative impacts on a woman's body/health. Such as bleeding between periods, weight gain, migraines, allergic reactions, decreased sex drive, mood changes (mild to severe). More serious complications are blood clots (experienced this twice), high blood pressure, and increased breast/cervical cancer risks. Plus, certain medications (like antibiotics, anticonvulsants, etc.) can interfere with the birth control and make them less effective!
Non-hormonal birth control, like the copper IUD, also have negative side effects; such as heavier bleeding, allergic reactions, severe pain. Not to mention, the more serious complications of it puncturing through the uterine wall, falling out of the uterus or infection.
In this post all the info you give indicates that breaking up would be the only reasonable choice. I'm sure a 10 year relationship likely have had some great moments too. But your mother very nearly died and her reaction is to force you to cut off family. A family that doesn't like her because she treats you like shit.
Unless you and your family have treated her like shit over the years before this happened I say break up and go hug your mum and family. As someone who had to deal with my wife trying to prevent me from visiting my mother when she was dying I ask you to remember that you deserve better.
I very much disagree. I am not an attractive guy, but I am pleasant to be around. That's the important part. It also matters how you approach people you're interested in dating, and treating them like human beings instead of goals, if that makes sense?
Dude… she raped you!
thats literally called “crazymaking” its part of the abuse. you need to get away from this guy for your own safety. /u/ebbie45 has resources in their profile which might help you
I'm not being facetious, but sorry dude, your wife is at the very least having an emotional affair. No mother would be okay with her children developing a child-father bond with another man and not the paternal father assuming the relationship between the parents is healthy.
You're pretty stuck here, because you have children with this woman. I don't know your history with her or how you two got to this place in your relationship, but clearly something is broken and you two need to sit down and communicate.
My hunch is that there is a lot you aren't telling us about your relationship with your wife. As the father and sole bread winner, you have every right to cut your hours to spend a little more time with your kids. I'm assuming doing so wouldn't harm your ability to provide for the children. The fact she responds so negatively is either really telling or you're withholding information. Either way, your wife is having an emotional affair, and you two need to have a long, serious, and probably unhappy talk about what the hell is wrong with the relationship.
Write it all down. Dates if you can remember.
Schedule a meeting with your HR person if you have one.
She's creating a situation that is going to affect your work. Get it on record.
at least it's only 4 months, definitely run from this entitled thing.
For me, the ick is blaming her for his words hurting her.
You make a shitty joke that hurts your partner's feelings or hit them right in their insecurities, you APOLOGIZE. Not blame them for being sensitive.
I mean, unless you don't actually care about your partner. But why be with them if you don't?
It's fair to break up for boundaries not being stuck to. You want two forms of protection and it's not being met.
However, it's 100% fair for her to not want to use female birth control. Thank god I'm in premature menopause and don't need to worry about periods or pregnancy.
Hormonal birth control has a book's worth of side effects, and the negative impacts on a woman's body/health. Such as bleeding between periods, weight gain, migraines, allergic reactions, decreased sex drive, mood changes (mild to severe). More serious complications are blood clots (experienced this twice), high blood pressure, and increased breast/cervical cancer risks. Plus, certain medications (like antibiotics, anticonvulsants, etc.) can interfere with the birth control and make them less effective!
Non-hormonal birth control, like the copper IUD, also have negative side effects; such as heavier bleeding, allergic reactions, severe pain. Not to mention, the more serious complications of it puncturing through the uterine wall, falling out of the uterus or infection.
You guys just aren't compatible.
Seriously no wonder she didn't like the taste ?