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…and how much does she pay you? Apparently, in her world, everything is transactional, so she owes you a salary for the work you do.
Seriously, you have a job that brings money into the household. Your “helping” her is like having a second job, basically an unpaid Intern. Seems to me, you are more DRIVEN than she.
If necessary, do a time sheet with salary of going market rates…& until paid, let the “Entrepreneur” do her own work.
Oh & BTW, might look up a recent study that showed people working 4 day work weeks (in US/UK) were 38% more productive.
Red flag
Are you stupid or just ignorant?
You are 26, you should be living your own life. Not being anchored by family. Your mom is an adult, she can get a job, or a second job, and sort out her living situation independently. So can your brother. They’re both responsible for meeting their own basic needs.
I understand feeling obligated to family, especially when you’re doing okay. But you worked hard to be doing okay, and you deserve to live! your life the way you wish. Your girlfriend is absolutely reasonable not to want to move in with her boyfriend and his mom, so the choice seems fair, and if I were you, I would choose your future, not your past.
OP, you said he told you he didn’t want either of you to date other people. That’s exclusivity. That’s you and him dating only each other. So essentially, you’re IN a committed exclusive relationship. He was just uninterested in the label.
After two months, exclusivity is a natural progression toward eventually being boyfriend and girlfriend. I think you’ve just asked him for something he wasn’t ready for or felt uncomfortable about.
I get that my opinion isn’t popular. But that doesn’t mean it’s wrong. And it certainly doesn’t mean the other comment are right.
Do what you want but you’ve essentially destroyed a connection just because he didn’t agree to your terms. Where was the compromise? Where was the, “I’ll meet you half way” opportunity?
And despite how much you protest, and even though you waited to do it, you have to acknowledge that your decision to tell him you were going to date other people was driven from a place of rejection.
You felt rejected and you didn’t get what you wanted so you punished him for it. You’re right, that is toxic. And it’s also a total misunderstanding of his feelings and inflexible and even what he communicated, according to you.
Put yourself in this guys shoes.
A girl you like asks you to be in a relationship. But it feels a bit too soon. You want more time to get to know her or maybe you’re just not ready for that. So you say that you don’t want to label anything but you’d like to be exclusive. And then she responds to that by saying, “OK fine, but I have options and I’m going to date other people”.
Can you see how your response doesn’t actually match what he said? He didn’t say “i don’t want to be with you and I think we should both date other people”.
Look, clearly it doesn’t matter. The situation has been dealt with. But the reason I’m continuing to respond is because I’m trying to give you a sense of how men think given that I am one.
In his mind, exclusivity is a mental, emotional and physical commitment without the label of boyfriend and girlfriend. Even though he may not be ready to say he’s your boyfriend, he is committed. He just adjusting slower than you to the idea of a relationship. That’s a common response for 90% of guys that’s aren’t desperate to just be in a relationship asap.
Many women kill good relationships with men because they’re simply impatient, they can’t accept anyone else’s relationship term other than their own and they’re terrible at understanding they way men think.
I’m trying to help – if not for this situation, maybe a future one.
Anyway, all the best being back in the dating pool. Hope it works out.
Guys don’t talk about their relationships in general so probably wouldn’t find anything. Might have thought some unflattering things though
You want a baby (a lifetime bond, I have three sons) with a guy who doesn't make you cum because he says he loves you?
Also, he wants to make you a baby mama w/o making you a wife? Is that what you want? It's not best for the kid.
If I wasn't sexually compatible with a woman, I wouldn't be with her. Sexual compatibility must not be important to you. Well, before we got to, I love you, I'd be sure we were compatible in the bedroom. Oh well, different strokes for different folks.
People with different religions, background, and political beliefs have good relationships all the time. It's not about finding someone who is identical to you, it's about bridging the gaps together in a respectful manner. Good relationships are built on respect, communication, and love. If you both know where the line is, agree to disagree, but respect each other's right to have differing belief, it's absolutely possible to make it work.
I’m not sure where you’re getting that. He said that they come before me, because they’re his dependents. He also told me that if we do decide to have a child, he would take care of all his dependents first and foremost. That’s what I would expect of a man, regardless. He loves the twins because they’re basically his children. With our (hypothetical) child, the love would be just as strong. Kinda like having another baby with your spouse after re-marrying even though you already have a child. They’re all still your children, even if they’re from a different man/woman.
This is amazing. How do you propose she stops farting when she's asleep?! Should she just stop sleeping? Many healthy foods cause nasty smells. The human body is largely gross, that's not your roommate's fault.
Get a fan, buy air fresheners/deodorisers. Light a match. It's almost as if there are already many things that exist to try to combat this issue precisely because bad smells happen.
PS guess what? You probably fart in your sleep, too.
I'm just a rando on Reddit, so don't quote this exactly; you're responsible for the words you choose to use.
“I'm so sorry about how I reacted last night. I felt blindsided, and took it out on you in a way that was horrible, unfair, and unkind. I deeply regret what I said; it wasn't said because it's true, it was said as a way to lash out, and it was wrong of me. I care about you so much. I want to talk with you about this subject calmly, with love. Is there anything about last night that you'd like to tell me? I'm here to listen.”
Give her space to articulate how she feels. You're feeling bad, and you can communicate it. Let her have a space to do so, too, if she wants.
Whether in the same sitting or another conversation, get into the kids topic. Try to understand her perspective, non-judgementally, and without trying to change her mind along the way. Listen to her reasoning and feelings. Don't jump in with a counter argument for each point, as if trying to convince her otherwise.
Also, at some point, you need to do some introspection about what kind of life you want. Compromising on kids isn't a thing – it's a yes or a no, and a couple needs to be aligned. Adoption and fostering are other options, but would also need 100% support from both parents.
Once you have a better understanding of where both of you stand on the topic, you two can talk about what this means for your relationship.