This is an update to my first post here.
Hello everyone. To get this out of the way immediately-no, the baby was not my husbands.
I spoke to a grief counselor who gave me some ideas of how to talk about it with my husband and how to approach it without That night the kids were over friends house so it was just the two of us. I made him his favorite dinner and we sat down and talked.
I found out that the loss of the baby was hitting him so very hot for two reasons: his brother had told him the day before the miscarriage happened they were planning on naming the baby after his mother, who passed while he was very young, as a surprise for my father in law.
The second reason is because the night my brother in law cheated on Kyra, he was supposed to be hanging out with my husband because Kyra was out of town. My husband was particularly tired from work that day, and cancelled. So Brendon ended up going to a bar and meeting the woman he cheated on Kyra there. My husband thinks that if he had hung out with Brendon that day he never would’ve gone to the bar and cheated, and the breakup wouldn’t have happened, Kyra wouldn’t have gotten so stressed out and lost the baby (this is my husbands logic.)
I’m very happy we were able to talk it through. He’s beginning the process to begin speaking to a professional but he did say that once we talked it out in a constructive way he began to feel better.
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