He' s i9000 never let me use his phone or laptop throughout the relationship, but I in no way particularly cared. I have my own. Things changed this past 7 days though.
We' ve already been housesitting together in an area that has no cell assistance. The other day I' d overlooked my phone at my place, so I had no way to make contact with anyone. I asked your pet if I could use his telephone to sign into messenger and quickly send a message to a friend of mine who I was meeting afterwards. He was sitting for the couch opposite me using his phone and he informs me that I can use the laptop computer in the office. Thos laptop belongs to the owner of the house. I' g already explored that option and told my boyfriend there was a password on it. He then said he' deb find his old ipad tablet and I could use that. WHILST HOLDING HOS PHONE 2 FEET AWAY FROM ME! I let that go.
Yesterday evening, I pointed at their laptop and said that I' d like to print a couple of things. He immediately told me that I should use the laptop computer in the office. I again told him that it was password guarded. He says, " I can determine the password out. " I again left this alone. Later, he calls the homeowner in PANAMA AND NICARAGUA , where they' re on a break to get the password for their laptop computer….. while his laptop sat right there on the table. I told him that the situation really was fucked up and visited bed.
This morning I made a decision to take my things and go back to my place to think about things. He was at the office. I was packing my things up and grabbed a grocery bag that I thought had my books in it. It didn' t: it had a small laptop and a few collapsed pages of paper. I pulled out the paper and it was a list of his security passwords.
I sat and considered this for three hours plus whether I should/would spy. I finally did considering the past week. One of the passwords opened the laptop and…. there was nothing nefarious on it. Opened his two emails… nothing. Facebook…. nothing.
Exactly why was he so insistent on keeping these things private? Obviously, I need to leave your pet because I totally violated his privacy… but exactly why wouldn' t he just let me use the stupid laptop computer or phone?
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