Wife and I have been married for 10 years, great relationship that I put down to us always being open & honest with each other. We’d always said that if the opportunity for a threesome with another man came up we would like to go for it. Last weekend we met a guy at the bar of a hotel we were staying in and ended up in our bedroom. To begin with it was great but I came first and basically watched them go at it for the next 20 minutes. He had her in positions I’ve never even seen and I know she came at least twice. It didn’t bother me at the time and afterwards we agreed it was fun and that we had no regrets. For the past week my wife has had a spring in her step – she’s happy and confident and deep down I know it’s because she realises that she can still get the interest of a good looking younger man. I on the other hand have done nothing but relive the second half of the night over and over in my head. I’ve never heard her like she was that night and I know that I’ll never satisfy her like that. I’d love to tell her how I’m feeling and I know that she would understand. But I don’t want her to feel like she has to start faking things and over actin in order to make me feel good but I know that’s exactly what she will do. I’m hoping if I say nothing my anxiety will fade. Any advice??
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