My husband and I have been married for over 11 years. He is my best friend and he tells me I am his as well. We share almost everything with each other. Even little white lies we tell other people. Well that was until he called me by accident on his phone. He was speaking to another male coworker and the things they were saying about women. Women they work with, women who they know. My husband even said he would have sex with one of the women they were speaking about. He eventually realized I was on the phone, and left work immediately to come home and explain. He said that's not who he is and I know who he is. That he just talks that way around other men. He says every man he knows talk like that even men I know who I would never think of speaks that way. It doesn't make it okay. He said that but I think it's just all lies. It's convenient he lies to all men but tells me the truth? I don't know what to believe or if I even really know this man. Any advice at this point would be good. Should I leave him because this is how he talks when l'm not around or stay because of how he acts and treats me when he is in my presence?
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