As the title says. My boyfriend didn't tell me he's a trans man. We've been dating 10 months. I support trans individuals, but I'm just really shocked he waited so long. I asked him why and he said he has trans women friends, they all did the same thing, to scope out whether or not a person was A: accepting of trans people, and B: make sure they weren't just being fetishiszed by their partners. And while I understand and agree with that, idk part of me just feels different about it because we're a gay couple. I really wish he would have told me sooner. I've never had sex, or ever been remotely interested in having sex with someone with a V. I can't say it repulses me, I'm just indifferent, it's never even crossed my mind. I have no idea what it would be like or how I might respond. I was really falling in love with my boyfriend and excited to get physical because we had been talking about it lately. I'm just so confused now.
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