my bf (m30) was insensitive and now i (f25) am too insecure to have sex. How do i overcome this?

so i got my first Brazilian wax today. I was really excited to do this for my bf (not that he asked or cares about the hair i just felt like it would make me feel sexier and i wanted to surprise him) I took a pic and sent it to him to which he proceeded to say “that’s not yours, that thing looks like it went through world war 3. WTF” I cried. a lot. That hurt my feelings. Like I really went through that HORRIBLE PAIN to do something sexy for him and that’s how he responds. He did apologize alot and I do forgive him. I am not mad just hurt. Now, i’m scared to even show him in person or have sex with him again until the hair grows back… P.S I thought it looked really good… he also doesn’t understand why i cried for this. I really don’t want our sex life to be affected considering we have amazing sex but at the back of my mind i’ll always fear he hates how it looks.

EDIT : would appreciate it if men stop messaging me asking me to see.

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