My (33F) boyfriend (41M) is mad at me for refusing to wake up and have sex at 4:00am….

I’ll keep it short…

Last night/ early this morning, I was sleeping while was in the living room, drinking and listening to music. He came in the bedroom at 4:00am and asked me if I “have ever been raped”, which I told him I have a fantasy about being taken advantage of/ role playing that out with him.

I was ASLEEP and said no means no, I’m sleeping and don’t want to have sex. He got annoyed and said to “get my fantasies in order” and was talking shit under his breath (I could hear him). He then gets up, puts porn on his phone and shines the flashlight in my face saying he’s gonna take care of himself, but wants to bust on my chest. I woke up, annoyed, and said NO I am sleeping.

He got pissed off at me, said that “he will remember this” and left the room, slamming the door. He was obviously drunk, because he drank all of the alcohol we had in the house (not too much, but even my 1/4 finished drink from the night.

I know this is not okay… but I honestly think there is something wrong with him… I guess I’m not looking for advice; but looking to see if I just should have let him finish (he told me I should have just stayed asleep, instead I woke up with an attitude). Wouldn’t anyone??