my best friend (f32) and I (f24) have been friends for about 7 years. We online in different states and we take turns visiting each other multiple times a year. So i’m currently visiting her and staying at her house.
Last night my best friend and her new boyfriend (m32) propositioned me to have a threesome with them. I started laughing because I thought they were kidding, once i realized it wasn’t a joke, I said absolutely not. I don’t fuck my friends. I was honestly pissed she would even ask me such a thing.
Her boyfriend then made the comment of “we could just hold you down and do it anyway” and they both laughed like it was a normal thing to say. I went to the guest room, locked the door and went to sleep.
This morning I tried to forget last night ever happened and remained cordial towards her boyfriend until he said “tonight we’re all getting drunk, I wanna fuck you”
I honestly feel like i’m being preyed on. I am here until next Monday.
She’s NEVER been like this before and it’s honestly scaring me.
What can I say to my friend about this to let her know I am serious & don’t want to ??? How can I get them to stop pressuring me?
TLDR; best friend & her boyfriend are pressuring me for sex.
EDIT; thank you all that provided positive comments, to help me sort this situation out. I appreciate it! I am no longer at my friend’s home. I am staying at a hotel but I will remain in NV for the duration of my trip.
EDIT 2: i spoke to my friend and she agreed to meet me at my hotel without her boyfriend being there, to discuss what happened. it’s clear i don’t want to lose this friendship, she doesn’t either. we are trying to figure it out
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