These guys aren't people I know or hang out with specifically––they're sort of satellite friends. They're closer to my F20 friend, let's call her Kayla. Kayla frequents our college's STEM study center (basically is there daily) in the library which these guys also frequent and she hangs out with them a few times a week. I come and visit her in the study center sometimes and I recognize them but don't know them. This is a group of about 5-6 guys. She told me a couple of days ago that they had been running bets this past semester on which one of them would "hit" first, and that one of the guys said he wants to "use" me "like a fleshlight."
It suddenly explained a lot, since maybe three or four of them had been weird to me for a while. I'd been getting DMs from them on Instagram and stuff. One guy has been kinda creepy actually? He's been drawing pictures of me and then DMing them to me. He isn't an artist. They're like … bad, creepy pencil-on-lined-paper drawings. She told me that she doesn't get why they all think I'm so hard and that I'm "not even that pretty" and that they only want me because I'm skinny. She said she'd known for months since they started running the bets but didn't think to tell me until now because she thought it was harmless and that "boys will be boys."
How should I address this issue? Should I talk to these guys and tell them I'm not interested? Why wouldn't she tell me about something like this?
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