So I have been together with my boyfriend now for 2 years, and its all good except one thing: he keeps calling me fat and joking about my weight gain.
So I used to be 160cm/60kg but this winter I gained 10 kg, snd my boyfriend keep joking about my weight gain. At first I can accept it although it Still feels a bit hurtful but I shrug it off. But he keeps saying it and it really irritates me, so I asked him to stop, and he apologised. But that didn’t change anything he keeps saying it and joking, many times he says jokes when he saw me very hot, he would say „shall we make soap out of that?“ or „will your mon recognise you will all that?“ or „wow your legs are bigger than sumos“ and one day I just couldnt handle it and I bursted out crying, he then felt so bad about it and promised to stop. But then he keeps doing it ? and I dont know why I feel worse and worse about it. i feel like I cry about this issue every week now but he keeps doing it, but I also feel stupid to be hurt by small thing like this, but I cant help it! ?
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