30f just moved in with my longterm bf 31m 3 months ago. I noticed he forgets to lift the seat when he pees and forgets to wipe. But lately because hes a bigger dude the way he fits on the seat i guess his butt is too big and hes getting shit all over the back of the toilet seat.
We keep fighting about it because when i ask him to come clean it he starts yelling saying "it was an accident, dont be a nagging bitch" but this "accident" keeps happening. We had this big fight over it 2 times already where we are yelling and screaming at eachother.
He doesnt even wash his hands after he poops. He hasnt brushed his teeth since may and he doesnt do any other cleaning around the house.
We just bought this house together so its a little more complicated than just leaving but what can i do to help him care about his hygiene and the cleanliness of the house?
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