I just need quick closure. I have no one to talk to about this to be honest. I feel like I’m getting thrown for a loop. I’ve been with my gf for almost two years. She has 2 kids from a previous marriage. They’re good kids.
Gf has some issues that she is working out in therapy but to be honest, and I know it’s one sided since I’m the only one posting, but I’m her emotional rag doll. I take whatever is needed of me. I get yelled at, I’ve been hit before but this stopped in the last few months. All when the kids are with their BD or in bed. But today we had a disagreement and she kicked me out in front of everyone. It was over dinner, I wasn’t upset, no raised voices. She told me I had 10 minutes to get my things and to leave.
So I do. I don’t want to make a scene or get upset in front of the kids. I get a backpack with my work stuff and go. I try to ask if that’s what she wants. And she says yes.
Cue five minutes after I get on the highway. She calls me after putting the kids to bed. She’s crying. Begging me to come back. This is the 3rd time this has happened in a year despite therapy. I tell her I’m going to stay with my parents. That I have told them that I am on my way to them. She tells me that if I don’t come back and forgive her. That we’re done. That unconditional love is getting kicked out and accepting her apology. That if I don’t I’m responsible for if she self harms. I don’t want this. She’s calling me and demanding an answer and I just don’t know what to do.
Can someone tell me I’m doing the right thing by just staying away? I understand it was a two year relationship but my mental health is drained.
Thanks for reading.
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